Dear Community,

I determined to discuss my individual opinion with you. I think the German PickUp discussions are very severe. The German Pick Up Artist are talking a lot about mistakes. Women often become deprecative.

I do not think this is my way to success. I think the most important matter in becoming a good Pick Up Artist is to have fun with the girls. And I do not have fun if I deprecative girls. And I do not have fun by thinking: I have to be perfect. The truth is: Nobody is perfect. And nobody knows what a perfect personality is.

Flirting with a girl is only a issue of two people. You know in the world there are 6 milliard human beings. For you it can be a big big feeling. But it is not such crucial that you are not allowed to make no mistakes. Especially you do not have to break every feeling and every approach down.

What is your opinion about this statement?

Best wishes
Did84

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It is impossible to be perfect. You don't have to be perfect. It's a disadvantage to want be perfect. Relax and enjoy love.

Hey Did - I spend quite a bit of time in Cologne. The whole pick-up scene in Germany is a long way behind right now. I tend to do okay with German girls when I speak English (and they can understand me) but when if I try speaking in German it all goes out of the window!

I tend to use a lot of humour and am very cheeky in my interactions aber in Deutsch das geht ja total nicht! They think you're a total dick cos the humour ist ganz anderers.

Anyway let me know how you get on in the world if German pick-up