Hey guys hows it going, i was recently introduced into the world of PUA's and seduction and im really interested, not only in the ability to get any women but just the general boost in confidence that comes with having these set routines and kinda knowing how women think. Now i'm not going to sit here and lie and say i never kissed a girl, but i would defiantly like to be a LOT more successful than I am currently. I've just graduated highschool and i really feel i should be getting more girls than i am now. I always seem to sabotage myself though. I have no qualms with approaching women no matter what they look like, but i do have a problem with getting them interested, as well as closing on them. Im a kid with a lot of high aspirations for my self, and i seem to be perusing them well and making progress, and i really feel this is the last area of my life that i dont have to much control over and would like to change that. So if you guys could help me, im really open minded and really interested in learning, and i hope to get to know a lot of you guys.

--Vince West

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Half of chasing the dream, is just dreaming itself

Welcome Vince.

seems like your problem is your mid game, the section after you've approached the group and have started conversation. you just need to have the right game plan in your head. At first, you'll probably screw up, but you'll get more consistent, the more you play the game..

you need help with escalating attraction. this should be useful
sexual-attraction-explained-in-depth-vt40419.html


if you have a practiced routine, your game gets easier.
the-best-tease-routines-by-jay-wa-vt18584.html

i'm also a newbie, and i really feel having read some pick up books will help you get you started and will enable you to use the forum better.

good luck

Hey, thanks for your reply, and i found those links really helpful, im not totally sure whats my issue, but that defiantly could be one of them. the more i've been reading, the more sense some of it makes to me, while the more some of it seems like it could be just a "pull of the leg", like the psychological stuff.. which really seems like crazy stuff, and i'd be interested in hearing if anyones had any success recently using it and what they did/how they did it

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awesome, just check out the field reports and lay reports section, evidence of the game working.

ill check it out... i've been compiling some stuff, and boosting my confidence, going to a random party tonight and going to try out some of this stuff. Do you guys find that going drunk makes it easier, or if im sober ill be able to retain knowledge more!! hmm

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Half of chasing the dream, is just dreaming itself

alcohol is your own preference. it depends how you handle it. i know that it definately helps with Approach Anxiety, however you're almost garanteed to screw up your routine sooner or later, which is fine, if you just looking for fun... just make sure you keep the alco under control.. i have some really bad stories that i do not want to mention that was caused by alco.

just btw, i came across this link for approach anxiety..
hypnosis-video-to-get-your-over-approac ... 18434.html
watch the video...trust me

i used a similar type of thing to help me concentrate when i was just hecticly over worked for my finals @ high school. from the comments i'm sure it'll work. it might seem a bit weird but just give it a try.

hope it goes well dude, all the best