Hey my name is Sam and I'm a 21 year old college student. I have always had a lot of trouble establishing a decent love life for myself. Unfortunately, I have very little success in this department. I know why though, I have bad social skills, was cursed with shyness, and lack confidence. At the moment I really don't know if I should even try anymore. The saying, "some guys got it and some don't" seems to be true but I want to turn things around. Several girls have told me that I was good looking so I know I do have some potential. If there is any advice anyone could give me I'd really appreciate it.