Comment ca va, mon amie? I'm not French. This just sounded better than "Hey Guys".
Basically I just wrote out a nice interesting intro, and I accidentally used a few symbols that got mis read as HTML commenting. Gotta love that.
A brief retype:
I came across PUArtistry by accident. It was very boldly brought to my attention that I was WAY too nice. Some googling brought me to a few "Nice guys finish last" blogs. Then I found DD's C&F material on Ask Men and Youtube. PUA somehow creeped into my searching and I found the <a href="
">PUA Forum</a>.
I used to be a firm believer that giving women what they "want" and being "nice" was the "right" way to approach the situation and I just wasn't attractive enough (physically) to get the women because "if they only knew how nice I was...". Wow, sad now that I've read through the forums a little and listened to DD's material.
My immediate goal is to work on exubing attraction on a regular basis. Not only sexual attraction towards women, but also just also attracting business/friends as well. I consider this "epiphany/renaissance" to be a complete life change, not just to get women in bed (Though I won't make the mistake of turning that down again. NO not a virgin.).
First order of business, moving C&F over to women I'm actually attracted to/interested in. I'm sure this has something to do with not caring, but I won't make much if any effort to talk to a woman if I'm not interested. I should probably change this.
Second, work on Kino/Flirtation. My alter ego (the nice one) thought it was "disrespectful" to hit on a woman, flirt, make comments...etc. unless I knew she was interested. *slap* I need to get out of that.
Third work on Natural game. Reading canned content is great for getting a good feel of what type of reactions I'm trying to get, but the danger of repeating game she's already heard (especially with VH1 and the forums being open to the public) is a huge confidence killer for me. Plus I want this stuff to be able to stick around if I decide to keep her around.
Fourth...Stop attracting women with psychological issues...
CHAT