Hey guys

Pretty new to this, kindof, I have read a few books in the dating area, as well as watched all of The Pickup Artist and absolutely love it. Where it stops for me, is taking action.

I have purchased "Rules of the Game" and instead of doing the 30days, I read it. I really need to work on my inner game. I have dropped 55pounds in the last 2 years, 35 in the last 3 months (was actually working on myself in the last 4months or so). Been hitting the gym, trying to get a look together as well.

Here are some of my down falls

1. I have no friends, zero.
2. I have no hobbies, other then WoW, girls cannot be impressed by that
3. I have not had sex in a long time
4. I have been anti social for a lot of years, pulling out of this is going to be hard
5. I don't drink
6. I am 35, I think I am too old for clubs


I have been on a few dates via PoF, but not with girls I want to be with, they are usually big or I am just not attracted too them.

Any advice on where I should start?

Hey,

I suffered from social anxiety and getting caught up with WoW as well a few years ago but I managed to get over it. How? I joined a social anxiety CBT group. Works wonders. They do everything they can to get you out of your comfort zone... then make you become comfortable with it. My local general hospital was doing these groups for free. Try searching online for one around your area. It's going to take alot of willpower, but it was so worth it