Hi everyone,

I am at university in England and I have a girlfriend. I recently read 'The Game' on holiday and i am intrigued by this whole community.

Prior to having a girlfriend, and now that I have one, I never had a problem talking to girls. I was (and still am) by far the most successful with girls out of my friends, and (without sounding like a dick) I am apparently quite physically attractive.

You might be asking why a good looking, confident and reasonably intelligent guy (with a girlfriend) needs to join a pickup artist society.

The truth is, I am looking for more than just having sex with girls. Throughout my relationship with my current girlfriend, I have continued to chat up girls, and have been in more than a few situations where I could have cheated on her. I am looking for that well-rounded feeling that Neil Strauss achieved once he realised that there is more to being a pick up artist than just shagging around.

Can someone help me with this? the question I am asking you all is this:

How can i harness my confidence and ability to talk to girls to benefit other areas of my life?

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