Hello to everyone,

I am some one who has enjoyed moderate success with women (6). I am twenty this month, have attractive facial features, a great intellect, have a good sense of humour (when I'm comfortable!), and a slim build. As I mentioned, "moderate success", but I obviously wouldn't be here if that had changed.

Things have gone down hill in the last year and a half. I had some very serious family problems (who hasn't...) that were a huge shot to my self-esteem. Also, I cleaned up my act, got on track, and became a bit more "boring". So, since I've blended into the background and have a confidence issue, things have NOT been going well. I've only been laid by a good friend a couple times during this time period and fooled around with 2 others girls - really tame fooling around lol.

I hope to find some help here. Already from reading up a bit I feel more confident and ready to approach this problem as directly as possible. If any of you would like to give me any personal advice for the absolute beginner - that would be great.

Thanks, Major Tom