| I am a 20 year old girl from Denmark.
About a year ago, after gaining a lot of weight, still being in love with a man who had broken up with me, I talked to a friend of mine. My friend said he knew some people who would and could help me feel better about myself. Then he introduced me to the game.
At that time I wasnt ready to take everything in yet. I didn't want to spend time reading books, and the whole PUA-community didn't really interest me - I had a serios case of oneitis, and even the idea of meeting someone else freaked me out.
Well, Needless to say, I found some other people to fool around with, and the oneitis went away - for a while.
Last December my ex approached me again, and the story of our relationship got repeated, only this time in FFW, and lasted about 3 months or so. And the oneitis returned. However I knew about the game now, and I decided to give it a chance.
First I went to an NLP coach (not to lear NLP, but to see if I could feel any better about ME ) and he gave me some sessions. Then I went online, found the Danish PUA forum, and started getting into it.
I have always liked a good party, and clubbing, and I've never been an introvert, but never has meeting new people and talking with anybody been this easy for me.
I can talk to pretty much anyone now. It wasnt like that before. I have an easy time opening people, and I really feel at home between other PUA's.
So, I started working out 3 times a week to lose those extra pounds, and I allready feel better, and lost 1/3 of what I need to lose in total.
My goals are to get a firm frame, mindset and innergame.
To be able to seduce guys without having to talk to them.
To have a body I'm happy about.
To live the life I want.
And to cure my oneitis once and for all.
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