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PostPosted: Thu Jul 15, 2010 12:10 pm 
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Hey, I'm a 20 year old college student and this is my first post on the forum. Growing up i was the fat shy kid who had no confidence at all and just didn't get lucky with girls(always stuck in the friend zone, and no physical contact whatsoever). Ãt 16 with growth and life changes i was no longer the fat kid, but i still had all those inner issues left to be solved and that got me into PUA. I started with David D's stuff and always looked at it not to actually pick up people but to become a more confident person and solve a lot of "inner-game" stuff. I was never one to go out and open, but whenever i had a casual chance of talking to people in high school and stuff i would definetely use the stuff i had learned from David D (Cocky and funny stuff) and that got me quite popular in High school (which never happened before).
Last year I entered University and discovered MM and PUA Tv Show. I also read the game and saw some of Style's stuff and now I'm deciding to take things to a new level. Instead of: "when life gives lemons, make lemonade" type of guy, i want to be opening sets and go "look for lemons" instead of waiting for life to give them for me .I am pretty much a noob more than anything because i learned Mystery and Style stuff just a year ago and am only starting to applying it.
This week i have been doing voluntary work for this international conference on a University near mine and since i had to talk to a lot of people a lot of my AA had gone and decided that this was the time to start going agressive and apply some stuff. So here's my report:

First Day: Scanned the environment, tried to DHV as much as i can. There wasn't much people as i expected. 30 max. The conference was going to start tomorrow and us ,volunteers, had a lot of work to do. Didn't had much chance to socialize this first day because they made us carry stuff and it was more free-for all, independent work, but sometimes people crossed you during this back and forth and you could strike up a conversation. Only by the end of the day did i had the chance to talk without any time constraint to this girl who was going home after a day of work, just like me.
I was kinda nervous since it was my first time opening and decided to use spontaneous openers which got me nowhere: "geez, this was a hard day of work"... and just asked random info about the job. Obviously, that wouldn't get me anywhere. Either way, i tried to go out of my confort zone and asked for her mail adress and phone number. Which i got, but ofc i didn't build enough confort to actually have a decent conversation with her again.

Day Two: Now this was different. A lot of more people showed up and there was now time and space to socialize. The girl from yesterday wasn't there. (Thank god! i was fearing that she could DHL me because of my shamefull shit on the first day...but this could just be me: confidence issues?) plus, my cousin, who also volunteered and is from that university, was there and he's definetly got the Alpha male thing going for him. We're like brothers, 'cause we grew together, so being there with him just chillin' and having fun really DhV me that day.
I had still a lot of AA though, but the conference had started and a lot of people are showing now up asking for directions (which was basically our job, to give directions and support to whoever needed). That loosened me up and got me prepared for the next 3 days.

Day three: I was assigned to assist on this big hall at the entrance of the University with 3 girls and 2 guys. As soon as i arrived, one of the guys went straight to me asking my name, shaking my hand, ordering stuff. He wasn't my supervisor or anything. He just wanted to appear Alpha. Which, whatever, didn't care. Shook his hand say hello, small talked. Started to do my thing, not following what he had said. Talked a bit to everyone, got to know them. This two guys were nerdy guys who just wanted to show up in front of the girls...which was really laughable. That made me confident. There weren't any HB10's working, but the girls in this hall were HB4, a HB7 and HB8. The HB8 and HB4 seemed to know each other a long time ago, so i decided to start talking to HB4. Again, noob moves: Ocasional spontaneous opener and started talking. She was really energetic and i could tell she was nervous, talking a lot and stuff. She was laughing a lot and i think that caught the attention of her friend, the HB8 who opened us with" what are you talking about?". She was also a very energetic one and talked a lot. She even interrupted her friend, an HB4, more than once. I tought that was rude, and used that to neg her. "wait...(index finger to the mouth)...she was talking. What did you say again ( to hb4)" .( I Have to improve my body language a lot. I am this blonde, blue eyed guy which girls like a lot, but i look like i am 16 instead of 20 and i have a deep low voice. I ussualy speak loud, but i have to force it a bit. Either way, i just pass my negs as more rude than playful most of the times, so i definitely need to work on that.) The neg actually worked, since she started to wanted to talk to me a lot more and i just didn't let her trample her friend by tooking control of the conversation. She even pulled by the arm and poke me in the back some times during the day to call my attention. These two left after lunch, and i still had to be there the whole afternoon. I had already spoke to the HB7 during the morning, but she didn't speak much...and was always looking for the other two girls, see what they we're doing. She's also a bit older(23) than the previous two.(20). I assumed she was shy, and more mature but knowed that i was high value because of the stuff i did in the morning, proof was she started to speak to me immediately as soon i arrive after lunch to that big hall again. She asked where i was from and we were from the same unversity( always good...we can always see each other again). There was this guy from the conference asking for directions and asked if i was a native (since we're im from there aren't a lot of blond, blue eyed guys) and she used that to compliment me, ioi'ing me. I should have took this chance to take her elsewhere more confortable or private, but i just failed completely by blocking out (in my head im still that fat kid i guess...not used to many compliments) and complimenting her back(said she looked italian...which she did, but that was just AFC). At the end of the day, she asked for my number.

DAy Four: Back to that big hall (hell yeah!) As soon as i walk near the door, the HB-7 italian looking girl started shouting for me and grabbed my arm taking me inside.Even the security guys started looking at me.Now that's DHV right there!. I was still sleepy since it was early morning, so i had to raise my energy or this was going to go downhill, i tought. Everyone was always on alert, lloking to see what we were doing(even the security guys). So i had a hard time struggling to take things privately, but i just couldn't. People asking for stuff all the time...the hb-4 and hb-8 always talking to me.Heck, even security guys came and talk to me. Hb-7 left. Again i was left frustrated since i wanted some kind of closure(but now that i think about it...that's why i have her nr.Young people just want to do everything on the spot.!) Either way, i still had Hb-8 and hb-4. Through the afternoon, HB-8 sent HB-4 to get my a cofee. Again, noob mistake. She definetly wanted to be alone with me but the only thing that goes through my head is :" I really got to try that 5 question game gambit i just saw on the internet..."so i went for it. At least, it worked. And that got me to win her number and a hug from her. At that time Hb-4 was already there and started to block physical contact. Hb-8 after that whenever she came to me she always had her arm around my waist or something physical but her friend was always behind her. I still don't know what to do in that situation, and i couldn't get rid of her casually, so that's something i got to work on as well. I felt bad for the HB-4 and asked her for her phone too. (in front of HB-8...huge mistake?)

Day five(yesterday): LAst day of work. The day started the wrong way. I had to go to a Spanish exam on my univ in the morning. The results didn't turn out as i wanted. I was pissed, plus i had this huge cut on my lip from shaving that morning. "No K-close today!" (i was f***d)
Last day on the job, and all the volunteers were reunited outside this building. There was a lot of more volunteers that i had knowledge of. Being assigned for that big hall for the last days, isolated our group from the many others. But i still had that afternoon to make other n-closes outside our group. I never saw HB-7 again and HB8 and HB-4 were acting weird. No arm to arm, no nothing...no DHV. I looked and felt crappy as f**k. This girl i saw on the first day started talking to me..."there's cookies on that table. I'm tired of eating cookies these last few days"...i just replyed with "yeah, me too" (wtf was wrong with me? I had to improve my mood. i was being a downer.) I saw my cousin again, so i decided to go and talk with him, chill out and DHV like in day two. He's not aware of PUA material and he just didn't seemed much in the mood . He just wanted to leave and finish the job, since this was our last day.And boy, pissed and frustrated as i was...i wanted all that to end too. There were a couple of guys holding to girls, since there was now more than those 2 AFC's from the big hall . They were being the alpha's. Me talking just to some guys and my cousin...things were going downhill. I tried to get a 8- set talking with me and my cousing by doing a tick tack toe on a notebook and passin' it. That was an ok move...from there i got some girls talking to us, but everyone just seemed to want to go home and carry on with vacations. HB8 and HB4 were at a distance looking at me, just acting weird. Went there talk to them...but with not many results. Hb- 4 not replying and hb-8 just short answers. That got me more pissed and with no confidence whatsoever. Talked to 3 more girls, and negged negged negged. This girls weren't that high value so they didn't even needed negs...i had just passed as rude to them. As i was about to leave Hb-8 was near me and i thought she had something planned for me...because she was kind of stalking me for a few minutes. But she didn't say anything and since i was pissed, i just decided to call this a day.

Conclusion: For 5 days, 4 numbers isn't that bad. I used to just get numbers when i meet new people( introduced by friends, or new people on class). Now i actually opened with strangers and got some numbers...i think that was a progress. I also got to try a lot of stuff (palm reading stuff, kino gambits from mystery, 5 question game...some opinion openers). I also lost a lot of the AA i used to have and learnt that u don't have to always neg. I used to think you have to neg all the time, and whenever i felt down (frustrated, not confident or whatever) i just negged so i could lower the other person's value, and that's just sad. I learned a lot about myself this 5 days and learned a lot on what i have to practice with. I'm noob...learn from my many mistakes!

PS: this was my first post on the forum and first report. I tried to be detailed, but still simple enough not to be boring. English isn't my first language and i spent a lot of time writing this (more than i expected) that why sometimes my writing becomes sloppy(as hell!) Hope you can forgive me for this, as i will improve my writing in the future.Hope you can learn from my mistakes, and give me tips...thanks for reading and for any welcome's and tips!


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