I've spent most of my life thinking I had little control when it came to women. Every relationship I've been in would turn serious, and they all ended the same; broken hearted. I'm 23 now, and over the last year I have been working hard on my abilities to attract girls, and have been successful, but I still fuck up. I never thought a site like this would ever exist. Since finding it a few weeks ago, I have been lurking and reading. I am really greatful for all the information. I now have a better understanding of my abilities and my weaknesses, and I look forward to learning more.

So what part of the PU is where u fuck up??

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"Not all who wander are lost. You only get live once, living it in fear would be a shame to your own existence."

I usually screw everything up after hooking up because I have a tendancy to become a "Nice guy." I feel that this is responsible for the high rate of LMR I have encountered. I need to follow through with the same attitude that I started with. My phone skills need work. I need to improve my skills sober, and I need to become more comfortable with approaching.

Also, I have never before understood the games and tests that women would throw at me. I would usually pass/fail by chance. Now I am more confident that I will see them coming, and know how to handle them.

Explain what happened..

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"Not all who wander are lost. You only get live once, living it in fear would be a shame to your own existence."

There are many instances, but the one that made me realize that I had improved but still had problems to work on, happened earlier this year. It sent me really digging for answers, reading books, trying to learn from friends (BIG MISTAKE, they don't know much). Basically I picked up this H30y/oB10 (Blond hair, fake tits, beautiful face). I had her naked and in bed with me, and even though we hooked up I still failed to bang her because when I tried she said: "NO". So I made her get dressed and brought her home. The next day she told me on the phone that she really did want to fuck me that night. So, we set a date. It didn't turn in my favor because on the date I was a different person. I had become the "nice guy" that I usually do after hooking up with a girl. I thought that was what she wanted in a guy, I was wrong. Now thanks to this site, I realize the importance of follow-through.

Shit Test X)

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My gut ached in pain when I read that.

Wrong move Shwag.

LMR buddy.LMR.Make her feel comfy,then work slowly.

I will not get into detail...

I want a hot 30yr old with fake tits!

definate LMR, good to see your learning from it though,