Ok so i'm new to this and I have a very big problem, I dont feel im good enough for the really hbs(also I feel bad towards starting a relationship with a not so hot girls, feeling I'm just settling down for less than I can achive, I feel that since I think like this it is disrespectful towards the not so hot woman).
I know you guys will tell me that its all in the mind but is it really? im a pretty smart guy(not the smartest but good enough) and i know that these really hbs wouldn't want to date be seen with a guy who is basically socially boring.
I have a lot going on in the science areas, know a lot, read a lot, but frankly im not interested in the "lets just talk bullshit for 2 hours social scene".
This does not mean im not interested in the women, just that the talk and entertaining bores me, so I need help guys what can I do to not fake it and really be interested in all of this?
O another big major problem of mine is I think I'm better than almost everyone I meet, this is a problem I have been struggling for a long time because I really can see the defects in people very easily and note them up, so it is very easy for me to even not be attracted to a HB as soon as I speak to them. I believe this is a way for me to disqualify people so I don't have to escalate the relationship(demonstrate interest) since I never do this I never get rejected. Whew long post, hope some of you guys can deliver some much needed pointers.

You're problem is clear...

A lack of self confidence and inner game.

Try looking into that aspect of the game first,as that is where the foundation is laid.

From you're post,it appears to be that you have a hard time fitting into groups,and possibly,have a higher IQ than most.

I sort of went through the same thing when I was younger,and still today,struggle with it a bit.Trust me on this dude,inner game's you're first answer.