Hello everyone
new to the game, slept with 6 girls and I don't really have any idea how I did it. Im pretty confident with talking to groups but im an idiot talking to girls. I would like to broaden my skills socially while getting some action too. Look forward to inproving myself and trading advice with you all as I grow.

-Random

I'm in the same predicament as you man! Everyone here has come along wanting better results in pickups and social skills in general. What I've been told is to find your wingman and begin your work. I pretty much treat it as a science experiment, sometimes a test tube blows up in my face and I'm left wondering what the hell I did wrong. Turns out that nice guys can get chumped out pretty easy. Things I've done to get over my anxieties are:

1. Dance COMPLETELY alone at a club....fuck be the first one on the floor. Show initiative and they seem to follow. Don't worry about looking bad, if you pay attention to your moves it won't be that bad. Practice and suck it up.

2. Sing karoke in front of a packed house SOBER.....I mean no drinks or anything. Have fun with it and find out what everyone's reaction is. You're always going to do something wrong, don't panic just pay attention to yourself.

3. Find an opener that gets you to actually touch one of your pickups. I played off of Neil in his book on palm reading and didn't know anything about it at all. I pretty much told her she was going to have 14 kids, have three husbands and work at 8 more hair salons before she becomes a millionare. It was all bullshit-but no guts no glory.

I've had problems MY WHOLE LIFE with dealing with anxiety and critical people. It has caused panic attacks and horrible relationships where I've gotten walked over. After awhile I decided not to care what happens and just to work at it.

"the game" is an awsome book. haven't even finished it. I can't wait to research more stuff. these veteran's know of alot of literature out there. Good luck and good hunting!