Hey there

Im new, so hi.

New to the forum, but not new to this crazy game in life.

Let me share a story.

Went out to friends to this club last night in Cape Town (South Africa).

Blah blah blah, yadda yadda, sat drinking chilling. We were a table of 12 and 5 girls, so i had the credibility right there to be able to do openers with anyone and not look like i wanted to pick them up.

Table next to us fills with 8 girls (shit hot, one ended up to be a model for FHM and so on too, but i got to her through her friends, more on that later).

Right so we going at it and this girl walks up to me (yeah im sort of good looking) she's wearing the little black jearsey and a short denim skirt, nice legs, cute face, bout a 8 only though. She asks me if she was in my school. Im like :"fuck no, id remember if i went to school with you.

She laughs. Says sorry and turns to leave all blushing and shit. So i take her arm, pull her back and say "Look if you want to try and pick me up, its ok, just go ahead, im used to it" but in a joking way.

her: yeah ofc i only looked for an excuse to come over.

me: now that wasnt so hard was it.

her: whatever. your very confident.

me: only with girls i really like.

so at this stage we chit chat and shit and make jokes and i make a lot of fun of her.

i neg her a bit and she gets ready to go back to her table and friends, tells me what tables shes at and says i must come over later.

im like, yeah ok.

so i never went over. later she sees me at the bar and im like: so why havent you been back yet?

ahahahaa, chit chat bullshit here and there and so on. we have a few drinks and she is off to dance with some dick friend of hers. im like "screw that"

when shes done dancing i take her to our table, talked etc, later she gave ME her number, left the guys and we spent some time together.

all went well, then i left her and started working on the girls at the table next to me.

i see the one girls arm is half on my friends chair, so i pull it away and say : "hey you dont have to steal our chairs to get my attention" (cocky funny opener)

she giggles and we hit it off. later on i moved from her to the HB in the group but only after chatting to her for bout 2 hours. was hard work but they offered to meet me sometime this week for dancing and so on.

dont know wtf happened last night but everything just worked/

lets hope i can tighten my game more and make this a usual thing.

oh by the way, im meeting her for lunch tomorrow.

tonight i have a date with a HB 14 years older than me who is too fucking hot for words, problem is, i double booked, got an ex coming over soon for a drink. i dunno what im gonna do yet, but i might get both of them together and just mix it up and see if it might make me look more credible, as long as the HB doesnt find out its my ex, and only thinks its a freind. shit i gotta figure this one out.


ok more about me.

25 and from Cape town south africa.


good to be here.

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