Well im not really sure how to start, but ill give you a run down on the reason i became so interested in this subject. I am recently seperated from my previous wife, mainly because i realized how unhappy i was being married. It was not an easy decision but one that i knew i had to make. We were only married for 14 months however i have been away for quite some time doing contract work overseas. Anyway, i came to realize i was not happy in where i was at this point in my life.

With that said I have always been known as a natural flirt. I am not ugly but have never had the natural movie like looks..lol..I have always had a great personality and outlook. Well not until recently i have realized that i have "lost" who i used to be. I have recently also befriended several women where i work only to be considered a "great friend" and one who told me that she trusted me because she considered me "asexual"..wtf.. This one girl is just like so many i have read about. She beautiful ambitious well educated and has a great job. However she has a terrible habit of playing mind games and is totally into downing every man that comes around her. She is a man "eater". For the record though, I truely like this girl and she is a great friend. I am the only guy she hasnt thrown to the curb for some reason and she always seems to try and spin me up and tell me about other men and what they do to her, but then she turns around and just plays like she has no interest in men..states she hates drama..THis woman is a hard one to figure out..or so i thought..i started reading several books on PUA "the layguide" and also "the professional bachelor" and have realized that she is in the catagory as "the survivor"..she has survived a bad relationship and has totally built this wall around her and has totally pushed men away...It went as far as her telling me that when i went on vacation she almost pushed me aside because she felt we were getting too close, but she decided not to... Well being that i was soo interested in these mind games i started some digging and found this whole new world..i have started applying some of the principles that i have read about and holy crap..they really work..i am just a beginner but i have to say this is a change..i have always been the nice guy and the good friend..and i have definitely found out my whole approach to women enpowered them..no more. My main focus on learning this art is not for the women as much as to increase my confidence not only personally but in my job. I will definitely continue to read and ask for help.. Was this topic too long???LOL... Just to add though..I think this girl is a great person..and i know she has been through a lot. I just want to get through her barrier and prove that there still are some decent guys that she can trust...