I'm 20. I've been into this stuff for maybe 1.5-2 years now; and did not see any success until maybe 3-4 months ago...It takes a lot of time.

My mistake was that I attempted to focus more on outer game, hoping to find those magic words that will make any woman say "yes". What I did not realize is that its not about that. I hated the fact that I was a "nice guy" and was really set on changing that....also a bad move.

Only through coming to peace with myself was I able to make progress. I started to like who I was more, and guess what, so did the women; Confidence is the sexiest thing a man possess. I fixed my posture, fixed my lack of eye contact in conversations, and slowly fixed my social anxiety. I did this by building my social network, I already had many female friends, so i used it to my advantage. I went out to lunch with them, and became more comfertable and natural around women. Suddenly all their friends were asking about me! (use those girls who "just want to be friends" with you, they have plenty of hot friends themselves)

I've fixed a good portion of my inner game, I'm so confident in myself that it's almost disgusting...but it's natural. And the best part is, I didn't have to stop being that "nice guy"... I just had to incorperate more of my smartass side right away. Right now I'm going to start working on outer game more, I can attract 6/7's on a regular basis but its time to step my game up.

If there's any advice I can give anyone out there reading this who is just starting (or maybe is not), LEARN TO LOVE WHO YOU ARE.

Nicely put. Im fairly new to this. But not brand new. only about 5 months practice. Nice advice. I am also working on inner game. Ive have a few sayings that i like to repeat to myself. Don't change what you like to do because people may think its uncool. U are who u are and fuck the people who think otherwise. If u enjoy reading, then its cool. If u think your a cool person then other people will think the same thing. Dont go into life trying to impress people. Make them feel as if they need to impress you. You are the prize...not them. Nice post though. Thought i would add my 2 cents!