hey, I assume that this is the one place that we have to say who we are, so without further adeu:

I am Kurent, rAFC with a huge R. I live in Boston, and I am in the lair. Recently, I have not been closing, but I have been recalibrating inorder to incorporate more MM into what I do.

Generally, I open with something canned, then go into CF with a little NLP (working on getting more). I'm now trying to get more negs and false time constraints in. Usually, I can get a venue change. For some odd reason, the IOI I get most often is the girl playing with her hair. If anyone can tell me why I get this one more than any others, that would be good.

The things that I know that I need to work on are: Often I display negative Body language (such as leaning in, following the set, or fidgiting) or I qualify myself too early. I have started doing some more direct game (read: Stephan Method, and just asking a girl if she wants coffee right from the start), but usually I use direct game to warm up.

I usually post on the Bostonlair.com forum, and sometimes on the mASF on Fastseduction.com.

Looking forward to hearing what everyone has to say.

why does it say guest? I named myself Kurent!

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” IOI I get most often is the girl playing with her hair” are you sure this is an IOI it could be that she is just taking her hair away from the face. I just found out about this society, I learn body languish I long time ago to improve my game and worked hard and was never afraid of failure and I now feel like a “natural”. I think everybody have to feel like a natural to be good. What I mean by that is that the game has to be natural.

Back to your problem. Body languish is hard especially when you try talking at the same time. I usually test the IOI with giving her a slight compliment and se how she reacts, if you get a new IOI (liking her lips most likely) after the compliment, it’s real. When you give her the compliment keep talking so there’s now awkward silence and make it come out like it doesn’t mean much.

Is she using her left hand on her right side, then it’s probably more real. She could be nervous and that’s why she’s playing with her hair. Look for more IOI like the way she using her body, standing close to, you leaning over to you.

I hope this helps,
Have fun