I guess I'm in the right place. I feel like I belong here even though I suck at picking up women. I'm reading "The Game" right now actually. It's kind of messed up to read about the online communities and now be joining one. I think I'm terrified of women in general. I'm always afraid they are going to make fun of me. Ok, I can't wait to read what you guys are doing.

Anyway, I haven't been laid in a while. I don't even know. I got a lot of problems I guess. I'm not fat, though. I might be kind of ugly, though. Who knows but some chick was checking me out at the grocery store the other day and I didn't have the balls to say "hi" to her. God, and she was so freaking hot and petite.

I want to know what to say to women in these 3 locations basically:

at a popular monument in the city where people casually walk and jog
At the mall
at the grocery

If I can figure that out, I'll be on my way.

Hi Phorm... Glad you like the community. First of all you have to work in your inner game, don't talk like that about yourself man. You are the shit.

Okay I guess you could go with some Exercises to wrok on your confidence talking in public and with women.

Work on your AA (approach anxiety), Go out and say hi to every person you see , go to mall and chat with the staff.

Now , You talked about day game (a mall, park , etc...)

First of all you could build some confidence just approaching girls and asking the time, talking about the weather, etc...

When you feel ready to start gaming you can approach with any opener but it will be really good that you had a canned opinion opener ready:


Let me ask your opinion about this... Who you think lies more men or women ? ... etc...


Make a quick search in the forum about AA, noob exercises and check the section of social shyness.

If you need any help send me a PM

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thanks bro. Yeah, you are right. I got to stop putting myself down.