Hello all. Grant here.
Im 32, currently reside in Palm Desert CA.
6'2 200 jock type caucasian.
Was previously with my 9 yr older GF for 10 years since around 2009.
I have only had moderate success with women prior to her when I was 22ish & started dating her. We lived in LV for 7-8 years before moving to Rosarito mx for a yr, then Palm Springs area.
I used to not have a lot of confidence. I have been getting more & more in shape, less awkward & more social. My job I do sales & excel decently at it.
Main fork in the road happened obviously when this Really cute 23 year old blonde from Vermont moved here & started working w us.
Ive been putting in good work with her for about a month & finally scored. She's a keeper but I'm not dead set on anything SPAM.
Here's my dilemma..I've already told the "Ex" the hardest worst parts & planned on moving out, getting my own vehicle etc. Only time I haven't had a car in 20+ yrs lol, previous 1 transmission dead during loan
. I know if this "1" girl can make me realize I shouldn't be in a committed relationship right now. I missed out on 10 yrs of going out & talking w random girls & seeing & doing amazing things.
Will post pics of both & would REALLY love to hear advice on anything including getting back out there, letting go, age gap relationships etc. This is a new world & basically life for me, looking for like minded ppl who are all for bettering themselves & others.
Look forward to meeting everyone & reading everything!
CHAT
. I know if this "1" girl can make me realize I shouldn't be in a committed relationship right now. I missed out on 10 yrs of going out & talking w random girls & seeing & doing amazing things. 