A girl I really liked was leaving (graduation) last week and we went out to dinner together. She said, "I wish we could've gotten closer. I really liked you." Apparently, I didn't detect that, and one of two or three girls in my lifetime that I could totally marry was just lost to me. I get shit like that sometimes, "I thought you were gay," or "You didn't seem interested," etc. But from her that totally crushed me, because I always thought we were clearly "just friends" and my crush was silly!

Her leaving made me realize that I don't just have bad game -- I lack game altogether. I've always expected my looks or my money to cause girls to fall into my lap.

I want to learn to approach women not just for casual conversation but with the clear intention of dating them, not just "hope that it happens."

Cool site. I look forward to reading a lot here.