Hello, I’ll keep my name as brightspark25 for the sake of anonymity and generalize where I’m from. Uk based. I’m 25 years old and I’m seeking marriage and have been seeking to do so for sometime.I’ve put up with my fair share of BS from females. I’m not some luthario ( don’t know if that’s correctly spelt) I enjoy typically manly things, fishing, hunting, a large portioned meal and a tin of beer every now and again. I don’t really have many points to make about seduction, I find it comes relatively naturally between people when it’s right. Things I can help with are physical issues which limit confidence. Here’s a little history on me, I was always reasonably fit little bit of tub, at 19 I decided to get a PT and get in shape, I did so with fantastic results and made the dicision to stay trim and I was proud of myself. At 21 I was detained for an ‘apparent’ mental health issue, I still debate this. I was placed onto mental health medication with disasterous consequences. Erectile dysfunction and actually I maintain I actually lost permanent size, put on 3 stone and just lay about for about a year. I’m now 25 off the meds for just over 3 years. I have found ways of regaining some of my physical attributes, But I have found myself with no friendships or relationship, I imagine because I went through a stage of self destructive behaviour and found myself in close to 5K of debt, while alienating most of the people I knew.