Ok so I went to the mall today to try to pick up girls. I have a method for Aproach Anxiety that works. What I did was first I walked up to stores and asked if they were hiring and for an application. This was good because it got me into the feeling of talking to new people. So then after that I saw a girl in a store and I said "Hi" to her. She pretended like she didn't hear me. Then I wanted some coffee so I went to the food court and got some. There were 3 girls there and they were all talking. One of them was trying to Rap so I negged her rap. I said it was the worst rapping I have ever heard. They asked me to rap and I sounded stupid but it was funny. So then I told them that I had to get going but I wanted to hang out with them. The girl I was talking to didn't have a cell phone so she asked her friend to give me hers but I didn't win over the friend and she refused. So I walked away and I saw this girl at a kiosk selling hand creams. I told her that I had bought the creams before and I thought it was all a big scam. So i pretended like I was just interested in the creams. Then I asked how old she was she said "23". I'm only 21 so I told her that she looked like she was 18. That made her feel good i think because she started brushing her hair with her hand so I saw that and I thought to myself "IOI". So I told her that she was very cute and I asked if she wanted to go out sometime and she said yes. and she gave me her number. I bought her hand cream after. She's from israel and she's really cute. I'm so happy i can't describe this feeling. Guys I love this game. I'm going to practice whenever I go out. Thank you. I can't wait to keep learning and practicing.

Congratulations on your success man!

There is nothing that ever measures up to that first success - I still remember mine back in 1995 like it was yesterday. Your AA method was very smart; it was actually a psychological method called systematic desensitization.

A few things though - when you negged the girls rapping you shouldn't have immediatley complied with their request and rapped back, attractive girls are used to men obeying them and it comes off as very unoriginal and needy. It also sounds like that girl may have been playing you; I haven't met a girl in the last two years (popular or otherwise) who didn't have a cell phone.

Learn some unique ways to open girls as well - "hi" doesn't often work with an attractive woman because they have 20 guys saying "hi" to them every day. Find something unique to engage them.

- Chris

Hey that's funny, I came across some of those Israeli girls selling hand creams at my local mall too! Only problem is, they're all serious and say they have no time to go out... And I wasn't even trying to pick them up, they just said they have a really hectic schedule because their company sent them here..., and they don't have cars, money or free time.

So just one question - What's it take to pick up these Hebrew HB's?