I recently finished the book by Neil Strauss AKA Style called the game.  I related to a lot of the material and was addicted to the book after the first couple of pages.  I am 23 years old and somewhere in the upper 30s to lower 40s as my top score.  I have unknowingly done alot of the tactics used by the PUAs and AFCs in recovery.   Here is a factual story that happened to me last night.  (Mind you i was almost done with the book yesterday).I was outside enjoying being away from MN and all of my nagging problems that exsist there.  I had a cold beer in one hand, a cold bud light in the other, switching off smoking a cigar.  I saw an HB 7.5-8 with out her seeing me.  I saw she was going to the pool in the gated community where i was staying.  I followed after putting out my cigar and putting the book away.  I grabbed one more beer and left. I felt the rush that pounced upon me as i pushed the gate open as if i were entering a cage in the zoo.  She was reading some bullshit novel or maybe it wasn't but i put myself in that state of mind.  (stupid girl reading some stupid romance novel with fabio in it or something)  I approached her with a modified jealous gf act while drinking a beer shirtless.  She had a semi hot body blonde and a cute face.  Little boobs nice ass and really tan.   I said " hey i need your help with something... she looked baffled and said what in a bitchy 'who the fuck are you' tone...'  i've got this buddy who is totally whipped on his g/f she'll whisper in his bed and he has to come running or she throws a fit.  response: yeah....  me: do you have any input or are you the silent type?  response: no i'm not actually.  me: it seems to me like he needs some balls... response: yeah it does me: the thing is he's only got one.  she chuckles oh yeah.... yeah i say a horrible accident on a merry go round that involves this same girl... she says bullshit and laughs.... i was like i know right (girls love that line right now)  we bullshitted about our selves for awhile and she got in the pool.  I asked if she was spotaneous and adventurous.... yes ladder thank you i'm applying this shit.... any way i cannon balled in with no towel to dry off got her hair wet she was pissed i was like " don't be a baby hair dries" she got more pissed splashed me IOI.  I got out used her towel and was like take my sloppy seconds.  i started to lose her.. when i applied this test that i learned online where you can tell in three - five questions whether a person has a dominant left or right brain.  characteristics can be pointed out about a person that really can be applied to anyone but chicks think its cool i used that and then i did the cube thing kinda no latter and my own interpretation of her color purple she loved it.  I told her we should go back to the place where i was staying in order for me to change we did.  Through the convo i kept asserting that kissing was a huge deal to me and if a girl couldn't kiss i wouldn't sleep with them or even go any further if they sucked at kissing.  I was like do you think you got skillz she of course validated her self to me and i said i'll be the judge of that.  I kissed her we fooled around back to her place i found out she had a landing strip that hadn't been shaved in a while it was cool with me.  I called and told my friend about it.  She called today but i wasn't feeling it that much.  GOD I LOVE THAT BOOK I FEEL LIKE I"M UNSTOPABLE NOW  I am having trouble tho with this girl i dated for 5 years on and off.... if anyone has a bf destroyer for me that can be applied i would love to try it.