I'm PLD. I've been a complete douche and I've fallen into the 'friend' category and let the girl I want get away, we've kissed several times, spend a lot of time with each other when we are out and thus enjoy each other's company. I can't seem to progress any further.

I'm underconfident, self concious and I can't enjoy a night out without a drink.

She's hot, she could pretty much have almost any guy she wants. And she's a player. I can't stand seeing her with other guys and I can't do anything about it.

I'm wish I didn't want this chick, but that isn't changing the fact that I want her. Help TBQFH.

P.S. I'm not having much trouble elsewhere, other girls come across as easy compared tho the one I'm oh-so-obviously obsessed with.

We've talked about it and she claims she wants to get to know me better, I'm too damn shy to visit her and say hello without a friend at my side, I'll say hi and we only really talk when we're txting or drunk.