"Desperate times call for desperate measures."

Hello! My name is Félix and I am from Puerto Rico. English is my second language, I also speak Italian and German, and Spanish being my mother language.So pardon the grammar.

Never in my life I would have thought I would join a community like this. Please do not get offended; I respect all of you and If I am joining its because i do appreciate all the help you could offer and that I do consider you to have certain wisdom that I do not have.

So today I am sitting here at the office and I feel really lonely. Its been 6+ months that I broke with the bitch that used to be my girlfriend. After that, I have not had sex I have not engaged in another relationship, I have not even passed more than regular hollow chit chat with a woman. So currently I am really depressed. Thinking about my college year I recall only having regular girlfriends; i wasnt much of the dating type so I never developed tactics or games to hook up with girls. Today I feel like a natural process of selection is depleting my ADN. I come to think that women dont like me because I do not portray myself as the best of my kind. Darwin stated that naturally, a species that has no power to adapt will be deleted. I feel like that like really depressed.

What is wrong with me? I am 5'11 176lbs, in my opinion i look average and I am always well dressed and groomed. I sometimes catch girls looking at my penis. But I receive no calls, i have no female friends. Nobody calls me. I come to the office and i see my fellow colleagues all happy sporting their rings and talking so wonderfully about their husbands: The intensity on how they talk about them, the love oozing from the stories, the passwords in the computer all having to do with their soulmate. I am so desperate I even changed department and in my new department, with older people, its way worse.

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Pardon this question and please do not think that I am crazy: Is it normal to feel this way?

This forum is full of people who feel and felt just like you. Nothing new there man, and nothing too crazy about it. The only thing crazy is when you sit around complaining expecting life to change you for you. You have to get up get out there and do something about it. That or just sit on your hands and cry when life doesn't go your way. Theres no quick fix or easy way out. You have to feel like this and STILL take action anyway so you can feel different. You ain't always going to have the right feeling, but you can always take the right action.

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Thank you so much for those words. I dont want to turn this into a psychiatric visit (and maybe I need one). My life is doing pretty good: I got the cool office desk job, not too much hassle and competitive salary. Live by myself since I broke up. Keep all my bills paid etc. etc. So its not like my life is ruined; i just feel that this is the space to vent out how a specific aspect is making the rest of the parts feel less comfortable. I know you all understand this. Today, I finished up all my work so I am just sitting here digging into this site, doing some reading and comparing literature. "The Art of Love" - Erich Fromm and also "Esays on Evolution" - Charles Darwin. Im trying to look for the basis of why do I have this lack of pussy.

Welcome to the forum.

Here are couple of guides to help you get started:

GUIDE FOR GUYS JUST STARTING OUT

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GUIDE TO OVERCOMING THE FEAR OF YOUR FIRST APPROACH

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If you need some personal help, I'm also doing some free coaching.

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And don't worry so much about your ex and your life. Life goes on. Get on a new mission in life, even if it's
becoming world class with women.

A man without a purpose is nothing. Find some purpose and pursue it with everything you got.

Wish you best,

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Thank you all

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