Hey I have just finished reading The Game and I am very interested in pick-up. I'm a 21 year old university student. I joined a fraternity thinking it would be a good way to surround myself with popular people. The problem lies in that I feel very beta around my brothers. They are all very good looking, and successful with women. I meet a lot of super sexy sorority broads but can never seem to hook up with them like my brothers do. I'm not hideous; I have a nice complexion, nice teeth.. but I have a very big nose. I can't help thinking this is what people focus on when they meet me and I think alot of social anxiety has stemmed from this.

I don't mean this to be a sob-story. lol

But any advise.. perhaps what you guys were like to start off - would be great.

just a lil thing i've read, maybe when you go out, go out with friends that you feel ALPHA around, instead of the frat bros, when you're tryin to pick up...i know how you feel man, ive got friends like that too

thanks man

anybody else?

Forget about your nose, bro; everybody has flaws. More importantly, if you can adopt the mindset that your nose isn't an issue, then HBs won't view your nose as an issue. Self-perception leads to reality, my friend.