Hey people, I'm sure that a lot of people will sigh when they hear how I was introduced to the community... A certain book by Style... So, hi. Reading his book opened my eyes to the community I always though was there but I never knew it was so huge.

I myself have always been a flirter, but I am rediculously crap when it comes to introducing myself, also, I am having so much trouble getting over a girl (it's been over 2 years). So, I would like to learn how to raise my self esteem, get over this girl and basically just be so much more charismatic and sure of myself.

I hope you guys can help, thanks.

Shelby

Cool, I like your goals and you being so clear about them. Really hope you find some help within the community, and im sure you will =) .

hey everyone, just signed in, and i can say that i have the same story as shelby ( just a bit complicated )

The best way to get over a girl is with another girl, plain and simple. It's just amazing how a simple " hello, I'm ________ , and you are? " can do magic. I know it's hard, that is why there is the 3 to 5 second rule!!! just do it. And regarding inner game. Well it will develop as you push your self to be cool, to become a familiar with how women behave, because we men will never GET USED TO IT, IT WILL ALL WAYS BE STRANGE AND NEW, AND THAT IS THE FUN IN THE GAME.

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