Hello gentleman,

I'm a 19 year old Canadian currently attending University. I currently have a collective 14 notches, since losing my virginity in the summer after graduating from high school. I have always been interested in the "game", doing to being poor with women during my early teenage years - or so I thought. I grew up in a small town of less than 3000, and in my graduating class there was only 30 students. I think I was never really bad with girls, it's just there were none. A small town had a small selection. The university parties and skills allowed me to hone my pick up game. I have come here to share my conquests and learn from others.

Cheers,

- Cadmael

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Good evening gentleman,

In my last post, I had a collective 14 notches. As of yesterday, that number has climbed to 17. I will do my best to break each one down.

Thursday, March 9th.

I get an unexpected text from a buddy from back home who works 7 days a week, has has tomorrow off and wants to come down to the city I'm currently in for University. I'm always down to go downtown, so I give the thumbs up. He comes to my place a we drink some beers and catch up. We proceed to catch the bus downtown to our favourite country bar, but it's dead. On the bus, I warmed up by chatting up a HB7 and HB6, who were going to the bar we would eventually end up at. The were on exchange at the same university as I, from Mexico. My buddy and I proceed to cab to the largest bar in the city, which is much better. I must admit, I do use alcohol to help me game. It kills approach anxiety, and increases my spontaneity. However, I have noticed that if I drink to much I lose the ability to be quick and witty. I need a balance to be on top of my game. We split a pitcher, and I warm up by chatting a HB8 who works as a bartender at this bar but had the night off. I believe I was a little intimidated by how entered and grounded she was and let her control the frame, no good. I transition to the dance floor, which I understand many PUA's including Mystery hate. However, if you're a guy who can dance decently and be the life of the party and dance with HB's its a great way to DHV in my opinion. You are having fun. You don't look like you give a f**k. If you're dancing with HB's, you demonstrate preselection. You look confident. As well as primitive things like flexibility and fitness. To do this however, you have to genuinely be having a good time or be able to fake it. Go somewhere you actually like what the DJ plays so you can rock out to it naturally. I begin dancing with this HB8, and she loves it. We make out on the dancefloor. I proceed to isolate the target. Now this is a sticking point I get quite frequently, especially being 19 in Canada which makes me the youngest in the club or bar. The dreaded, "How old are you?" Every time I get this question I am blown out. I answer honestly - I'm too young. I answer with a lie - they call me out and ask to see my id. If someone could help me on this it would be greatly appreciated, a way for a 19 year old to pull older girls. Anyways, the HB8 I was dancing with turned out to be 26 and laughed at my age. Blown out. F**k. Frustrated I go to the bar for a beer, and chat up a HB6 who seems to be immediately all over me with IOI's. F**k comfort, I go straight for the pull. Lead her by the hand and throw her into a cab outside. Cab home, sex all night, skip class hungover Friday. In the midst of this, I lost my buddy but he managed to cab back to my place and it's all good.

St. Patrick's Day, Friday, March 17th

School week is over and it's time to turn up. Due to financial reasons, and the fact 2/4 of my roommates have girlfriends we opt to not go downtown and go to a fellow student's party. There's lots of familiar faces, and socializing is easy. I mostly spend the early part of this party just chilling with other dudes and drinking beer. While standing with my roommates, I notice a HB8 alone in the hallway upstairs. Approach instantaneously.

Me: "WOW! You like you're having an awesome time."

HB8: Response I don't remember.

*I spend this first bit laughing and smiling as much as possible and teasing trying to create the illusion I'm having the time of my and do not give a sh*t about anything.*

GAME CHANGER

This girl had tons of friends at this party, but so did I. I introduced her to everyone I knew, DHV. Popular guy. When people talked to her I would use Mystery's "So how do you know each other?" And proceed to run game on the friend, ultimately befriending her friends. Now I had created this persona of the happy-go-lucky guy who knows everyone and befriends everyone. This my first time really trying to be a social butterfly to say, but it helped my game by raising my social value significantly in this girls eyes as I became the centre of her friend group and my own. From now on I always open any newcomers to any interaction to establish that social leader aspect.

My favourite song comes on and I just grab this HB8 and spin her in circles and dip her. Bust out all my dance moves and she loves it. We're the only people two-stepping at this party. She loves it. Make out in corner. Talk more, build comfort. IOI's. I try to pull, but it's logistically difficult and she seemed set on being with her girlfriends for the night. I number close. Party gets shut down. We get separated. I go home.

Sunday, March 19th

I'm going to try to organize a date with the HB8 I met on St. Patricks day. I go for the text.

Me: "Knock knock"

*Interesting text opener, guarantees response*

HB8: "Who's there? "

Me: "[Real first name]"

HB8: "Had a feeling"

*Indicates she remembered and was anticipating my text, good IOI*

Me: "Figured you would"

*Little cocky*

HB8: "How are you!?"

Me: "I'm awesome! How about you?"

HB8: "I'm pretty good! How was the rest of your St. Patrick's Day?"

*I hate text small talk, avoid and get straight to business*

Me: "Pretty wild to say the least. When are you free to get together sometime?"

HB8: "Sometime this week possibly?"

*9:37PM I fall asleep, f**k*

*Next day*

Me: "Yeah! When works for you?"

*Later that night*

HB8: "Hey sorry today was a crazy day for me, my phone broke so I was running around [city] dealing with that. I'm free Sunday [26th]"

Me: "I'll pick you up at 6:30PM"

HB8: "That's specific, should I trust you?"

Me: "Yes, I'm a man of my word"

HB8: "Okay, can I have a clue to where we are going?"

Me: "It's supposed to be a mystery"

HB8: "Okay! See ya then"

Date sealed. I think it was important I didn't react to her not responding for such a long time which would have made me look needy. As students, we have pretty busy schedules. It's also a good way to practice letting go of the outcome and not getting attached to any dreams or high hopes. The ideology of "yeah I'd like to create a date and opportunity to f-close, but if not I'll always score someone else soon."

In my last post, I had made a date with the HB8 I met on St. Patrick's day for the following Sunday. Fast forward.

Saturday, March 24th.

My roommates all went back home for the weekend so I'm at our rental house alone. I decide to go to my favourite bar, sarging alone. I find that when sarging alone you must find a way to genuinely have fun or entertain yourself otherwise you'll appear and feel like a some kind of prowler. I find the best way to do this for myself personally is to dance, socialize or game bartenders, talk to random dudes, and of course - game girls. I need to be doing one of these things at all times or I'll feel that awkward vibe were I'm basically at the bar hunting for women. Anyways, a catch the bus to the bar crush a few beers to kill any AA. I start to two step with the first HB7 that makes eye contact with me. She loves it. I'm in. However, this girl had genuinely drank too much and was quite uncoordinated. I found her friends and informed them that this girl should stick with them and go home with them. I believe it was the right thing the do, but slightly bummed I head to the bar and get a beer. Where I'm from in Canada, not many people where cowboy boots - so it's my little way of peacocking. They also boost be from 6'1" to 6'3" which is nice. A HB8 approaches me at the bar.
HB8: "Are those actually cowboy boots? I have a lot of respect for that."
Me: "Well, what else am I supposed to wear?" *smirk*
HB8: laughs
*small talk and teasing, take her to dance floor and blow her mind, all over me. I try to pull but she claims she can't leave her friends. I continue kino escalation and isolate.*
HB8: "I'll go home with you"
I guess my kino was able to really turn her on. I pull. Cab home. Sex. She sleeps at my place.

Sunday, March 25th.

Morning sex. Send HB8 from bar home. Today is the day I have the date with the HB8 from the St. Patrick's day party. I pick her up for dinner and we head to a restaurant and eat decent meals. I suggest we play some Wii and head back to my house. After we finish, what I considered to be a mediocre date. She asks to see my bedroom. We jump on my bed and begin to watch a movie. I one moment she turns her head and looks at me. I go for a kiss but she turns her head and kinda f**ks up my move. I think that she isn't into me now, damn it. Wait some more, try again. Success! Escalate. Sex. Two lays one day.

Legendary twenty four hours in my books boys.

- Cadmael

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