Hi there

I am new on this forum.
I have a good tinder profile and match with quite a few people. About 20-30% initiate the messaging.
I have good initial game and appear nice enough so if i chat for a decent time the girls usually shoot me across their number before i ask.
My issue is transitioning to SPAM and not being able to use any attraction techniques.
Im hoping to learn that from this community, without changing my style too much or using too many canned approaches.

Thanks!
Inthevale

Hey man, First things first. ...forget texting! It's good for a few days in which you have to strike while the iron is hot, if you miss that window where you are new and exciting to get her to meet, there are 5 more guys blowing up her phone as well, not to mention the countless tinder and Facebook! You can't attract a girl over texting, the best thing to use texting for is to throw out invites occasionally to come hang out. The best thing is use snapchat. Get their number and add them, talk on there, that way you aren't just words in a screen, you are a real person in which you can send her snaps of you out and about and show her you live an attractive lifestyle, she has social proof at the click of a button and in a sense builds rapport because she's experiencing the fun with you and seeing your life first hand while still getting to know you through texting on there.

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Welcome to the forum:

Heres a few solid links to get you started:

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approaching-and-opening/topic190187.html

Let me know if you have any questions.

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dont try and build attraction if you match up with someone off tinder. the attraction is already, clearly there... just build a little bit of comfort if you need to and screen for logistics to meet up with them for a date

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HOW TO GET GIRLS FROM TINDER TO THE END OF YOUR PENIS

Like everything in life, you'll do better by starting with WHAT YOU WANT and WORKING BACK FROM THAT.

What do you want?

To be fucking a girl.

Where?

In the back seat of her car. No date, no money spent, no wasted time.

How you gonna get her there?
That's the question. And here's how I do it.

I'll match with a girl, give the bitch a chance to message me first. If she doesn't have the sense to message me I guess I'll make the first move.

Just don't say "hey". Be SORTA interesting. You've got one focus, getting her number.

If you can't get her number within the first 5 or 6 messages, drop that bitch. She's a time murderer, sent to kill your time.

So you've got her number. You've now got one focus again. This time you're trying to schedule a meetup. Lots of girls will be busy. I give them ONE reschedule but if they do it again, drop that bitch. Another time murderer.

To save money, my "date" that I go on every weekend is a drive around town in my car. I frame it so it sounds like we might go and get some food to eat, but we'll mostly listen to music and talk and get to know each other.

(we ain't stopping for any food, ho)

And I'll ask them some simple questions about themselves, just playing it cool. We can talk about "negs" and other bullshit but all I do is act like I'm better than them...because I am...

I'm the man...she's just some tinder slut, of course I'm better than her.

And then after about 15 minutes of driving around establishing that I'm the man, I'll pull back into the parking lot we met in, keep the music on, unbuckle my seat belt, and give her a look. I don't say a word, I just lean in to kiss her, and it's all fun from there.

So as it relates to text-attraction.
No such thing.

Texting is for scheduling purposes. Anyone who tells you different is a bitch. YOU TEXT WHEN YOU WANT TO SCHEDULE SOMETHING. NOT WHEN YOU WANT TO FLIRT.

All you're doing when texting is trying to get that bitch to come see you. That's it. If she doesn't want to...

it ain't my fault she's got bad taste and no clue what a man looks like. Her fault, not mine. NEXT!

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