Cardinal Sin- A serious error in judgement or another term for Deadly Sin.

The Serious Error.
For years I thought I was good with women, I have slept with 8 and have fooled around with 7. The only thing is is that the women I desired were out of reach. There are like a pinnacle for my sexual desire that could never be reached. Always thinking that I had to have a shit ton of money or have the looks and body of Cristiano Ronaldo, the famous soccer player from Portugal. After reading The Game, I knew I was just another AFC that was sub-par with women and lacked how to relate to them. Really though? Who gets this type of training while they're young? So here I am asking for help with an open mind and a nonjudgmental heart. Teach me the ways to reverse these errors, which now have turned into habits, I have learned throughout my adolescent and adult life.

The Person Behind the Keyboard.
I am a 29-year-old South Korean male. Growing up in Iowa, I was always influenced by small town living. I helped with harvest, played 4 sports in high school, wrestled in college, and played professional rugby. I have the body of an athletic farm boy weighing in at a solid 165lbs. I continue to stay fit by doing crossfit and running weekly. I moved to Colorado after graduating with my doctorate to pursue opening up my own chiropractic office. I sold my practice and now working for a company called The Joint which is a chiropractic puppy mill.

The Game.
I don't really know how long I have been in the "Game". I would have to say my entire life, but seem to be losing on a constant basis. Hence, why I am here. When it comes to women, I usually open with a compliment. Nothing in particular but just a " You. Are Gorgeous" statement. I do find it hard to keep a conversation going when I do meet women. I have been on many Tinder dates and none of them have had that "spark" of attraction. I believe this is where I will learn to harness that knowledge and use it to help me in many aspects of my life. My goals for this is to better understand women be able to help my life in all aspects when it comes to people. To sleep with any women I desire and to know no women is above or below me and to see them as equals on a level playing field. The end goal is to find the women that I can also spend the rest of my life with, If I find her.

Thank you for your input and making me feel welcome into this community.
Best Wishes,
CardinalSin

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