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I'm not exactly sure what it is your asking, but I'm assuming it's advice on what to do to be able to pick up girls. I'm going to be honest with you, I can tell you 1000 different ways on how to be a direct authentic guy and how to approach and present yourself and even how to communicate with a girl so you get to know her deeply very quickly. NONE of this will matter if you have approach anxiety because you'll never approach a women directly and tell her whats on your mind. These "stupid guys" you speak of may be assholes, but they get the girl because they have the balls to be direct with her and she at least knows what to expect from them and what they want. Nice guys on the other hand are not direct and women don't know what they want or who they are and that worries them which is why the "nice guys" finish last. At the end of the day nice is only a personality trait to get what you want. SO here is my advice for you to better yourself, become socially free, get over any social/approach anxiety, and be more direct and not filter what you say. Here are some social freedom exercises. These are meant to embarrass the shit out of you and make people judge you and they will be hard, however, once your ok with being judged and ok with being the asshole for speaking your mind you can do anything. After these exercises talking to women casually will seem easy.
Practice all of these exercises on girls you find attractive (the first few you do you may do on anyone)
(warm up) as your walking around town put a smile on your face and as you pass people smile at them, point at them, and say "bananas"
1.What's the time- Act like you are deaf, go up to someone point at your wrist and mouth "what time is it" (but dont speak) After the tell you turn around and scream as loud as you can "IT'S (what time they told you)!!! and walk away without looking at them.
2. The pick- Go up to a stranger or a group of people and ask directions to some place. Make up a story about how your looking for a gift for someone because its their bday or something. As your asking them and talking to them stick your finger in your nose and pick it. Make sure they see you and really pick it. At the end of the conversation say "thank you so much for your help" and try to shake their hand WITH the hand you picked your nose with. For extra fun leave your finger shoved up your nose while u talk to them and don't take it out until the end.
3. The Clinic- Like the previous exercise stop a girl and tell her you need help with directions. When she asks to where say your looking for a std clinic. After she responds or as she walks away from you say "It really burns when I pee" If she is still standing in front of you ask if she wants to hang out. If she actually agrees then you can tell her it was a joke and proceed to hang out (but I have never seen that happen)
4. The Long pause- Approach a girl on the street, smile, and say "Hi, I don't mean to be to straight foreword but, uhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh....." and just hold that uhhhhhh until she walks away.YOU DO NOT walk away first. after doing this 4 or 5 times add "I think your really cute" on the end as she walks away.
5.Bragging- Go up to a girl and just brag outrageously, for example, "hi there, I just wanted to say I own 5 houses. I also own 3 yachts. See that building over there, yeah I own that building. I actually skydived in here today I'm a pretty awesome guy. I have so much money. Get at least 5 brags in before you leave. NEVER tell them these are pranks live with the cringe.
Remember these are harmless and you'll discover people don't care, no on is really paying attention to things you do, and your not bothering anyone. You'll actually be giving people excitement to their boring lives and a story to tell. After you do these exercises for a full day message me and tell me where you are.
Holy Shit man...I can't do it!, I should go a bit slowly, perhaps hahah. I'll try the bananas.
And by the way, I'm going alone, and this is really crazy shit!
But thanks you enormously, I appreciate the effort on helping me.
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