So you're feeling lustful. For men, it's a problem as ancient as time itself.

I would say - there is a formula you can apply to appear more attractive to women. That is there are certain characteristics women look for in a man. With the right edge you can rope in your most desired woman.

But! You shouldn’t just fake it. It isn’t enough to just act superficially. You have to work on yourself and act real change at your very core. Each person is unique - and you must reflect who you are. What are your likes? What are your dislikes. This comes with time and maturity and usually means later than sooner for most men.

Lets be real: a woman likes a man who doesn’t complain, who’s purposeful and who knows what he wants out of life. Women will overlook how much money a guy makes as long as he’s passionate about what he's doing and sincere in helping humanity through his passion. Women also go for guys who aren't self-conscious.

First - an important principle to follow - don’t chase women. Find out what your affinities are. Pursue them. Start drawing. Start writing a scene for a movie. If you like music, learn to sing or dance. And do these things for the intrinsic pleasure it gives you, not as a means to an end. When you embrace life, you’ll find yourself becoming an interesting person who is less concerned with whether or not he is going to get the girl. And women, with their talent for intuition, will sense this about you, and that’s the most attractive thing. They will see a guy who’s not just trying to get something from them, but instead a guy who’s providing some kind of value to his life - potentially hers.

Pursue value - not money. Value is very different. And example of genuine value is the cultivation of your own unique sense of humor to the point where you can lighten any situation and make people laugh and take away their stresses. Humor is very mysterious. But you make girls laugh, they’ll want to spend more time with you.

Here's another thing - girls likes guys who can take them on the chin. A guy who can take defeat as a stepping stone, like a champ. A girl loves a guy who is not afraid to get knocked down, a guy who will persist in times hardship. This - believe it or not is not superficial stuff. This means who have to work on your core. You absolutely cannot just be brave on the surface. You have to be embody bravery incarnate. f you become brave, you are likely carry yourself with confidence and dignity, which is also very very attractive to women.

Remember that most women are not as superficial as society would have us believe, and as mentioned already, they are especially intuitive. They'll see through the bullshit, and if not the first time around, then the second. However you can't simply ignore the superficial stuff. The bait - so to speak. While it's too a well groomed man with sharp clothes and a winning smile won't be able to truly win a girls heart if these qualities define him - possessing your own unique sense of fashion doesn't hurt. But it should be in line with who you are and what you're passionate about. What were your influences over the years? Investigate, sort, compile. Look to the people, books and even movie characters who inspire you to be a better human being and to reach for your dreams.

Cheers!