Hi all
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I'm recently divorced and new to the game so to speak. I was wondering if someone with more experience may be able to help.

I went on a date about a week ago, everything went well (I thought) she hugged me twice on the walk to the car and mentioned several times how much she would like to see me again. We exchanged a handful of texts since then and now she has gone cold. Did I do something wrong or is it just something in the way? Anyone have any insight?

Hi welcome to the forum.

It may be that she is busy or something came up.
Give her a few days and text her again.
If she doesn't come around move on.

If you have any questions feel free to ask.

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Hugs? If you don't at least kiss (or at least try to kiss her) a woman on the first date, I'd say that your chances for a second date are reduced drastically.

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The trick is to already have something planned when you leave her. Planning something after the date is often bad news (I know, I was a pro at it ) Try to have a few plans in your head beforehand (anything you enjoy that she might too) and naturally arrange for it during the date.

Here's an example : "There's this thai restaurant that was recommended to me which I was told is unbelievable, and i'm planning to go try it this week. Why don't you join me ?"
You can do it with whichever event or place you'd like to take her to, especially if you know her interests.

This is only good if you have left an impression on a woman. If she isn't sexually aroused by you, you can make plans all you want but it isn't going to end up in a second date. If you haven't established yourself as a sexual being, she can do anything that you've had preplanned with a friend or just about anybody with a pulse.

A guy that tries for a kiss and fails will leave a better impression than a guy who doesn't try at all.

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You may think she's just playing hard to get, but no. Woman aren't that hard. But they do get board quickly.

You either over text, or we'er boring from the get go? If she's hot at all, she has plenty of non boring options.

She can pick Mr Nice guy plain potato chip, or Mr Exciting spicy BBQ.

If you want to find out if she still has some interest, send something like “I hey guess your busy, so good luck.”

If she replies, you will know that she has been waiting for you to get un-boring and sack up. So if you do this, be ready to spice it up. If you get continued white noise, yeah you blew it, try again.

Pursue other women.
Pursue other women.
Pursue other women.
Pursue other women.

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Do you kiss her? How much did you escalate on the date?

Also,

Welcome to the forum:

Heres a few solid links to get you started:

pua-lounge/topic190620.html

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approaching-and-opening/topic190187.html

Let me know if you have any questions.

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