Hello,

My name is Al and I live in Los Angeles. I am back in the game after being in a 10 year relationship. Prior to the relationship, I didnt have much game either and would go through bouts of major long slumps. Then I read "The Game" in 2006 and I was able to start meeting more women although not anything higher than an 8. Eventually, I connected with a coworker that I knew for a year and we fell in love. Or at least that's what I thought. She had three kids from her ex-husband that at the time were 1, 2, and 3 yrs old. I quickly became attached to them and overnight I was a father.

Then in 2008, I found her cheating with a contractor guy that I was working with. Because I was afraid to be alone again, I forgave her and we resumed the relationship. We had our ups and downs that I thought were normal but when I look back, there were many signs telling me to leave. I was just naive and pretty much stupid. Then in December 2014, I proposed to her and we were planning for a wedding. Around May 2015, her behavior changed and she was spending more time away from home and coming home late. I wasnt able to realize what was truly going on till January 2016 when I caught her cheating with the daugther's friend's dad from the volleyball team. So that was two times now and I knew both guys and said this needs to stop.

But then I went into denial and continued to be with her until March which is when I finally said, I need to be strong and move on. Since then I have been trying to become a man again after being heartbroken and demoralized. I forgot what it was like to go on dates, talk to girls, and kiss. Since March, I have not been with another girl and its getting pretty frustrating and pathetic. I have been doing a lot of reading, watching videos, and changing my image but have not had any success. I dont even have any success on the online dating sites.

My biggest problem is approaching women. If I am able to start a conversation with a woman call it by luck, I am not able to take it anywhere and I think either my desperation comes out or I make asshole comments. Or basically, not doing a good job of flirting. Lately, I have been thinking about completing one of those week long seminars to get my head right but not sure which one to sign up for as it seems there are a good number of them in LA. Any suggestions on how to get back on my feet and get freaking laid?

Congrats on moving forward. And you new found freedom. That dream you always had about banging lot's of lovely women, is no only steps away.

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P.S. you are probably feeling very angry and frustrated over your recent break-up. Vent your anger in a constructive way. If you have some rage to vent, please drink a bottle of whisky, get into your phone and post any naked pictures of the slut or degrading texts on a website or social media. Then make every effort to fuck her sister.

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THIS is the source of most problems. If you went into a relationship confident about your ability to find
someone, she probably wouldn't even cheat. I mean, women are sometimes weird and cheat for no reason,
but my guess is you'd at least notice the signs earlier and leave a lot sooner.

Anyhow, this time make a promise to yourself that you won't get into a relationship too soon, even if you
feel like "this is it", until you feel sure about your ability to get a new woman at a snap of a finger.

Welcome to the community again,

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