Hello! I'm 30 y.o. and i ended a relationship that lasted for a good 4 years. I'm now looking to get in to the game but i have no idea where to start.

Most of the girls in my age group are either married, desperately looking to get married, or girls that no one wanted to marry . Safe to say i'm not looking to start a family and TBH, i'm not looking to lie my way in to a womans bed by pretending i want a long term relationship. I'm looking to get to know more people and have fun.

So, naturally, i'm looking at women in their mid 20s and lower as people that i might have the same goals as.

Long story short, i have no idea how to interact with women younger then me. I get nice looks from the women in university (i got a masters degree recently), but apart from smiling back i have nothing.

Any help on the matter would help a lot. I would prefer tips or advise on day game; i'm not much of a club guy.

Welcome. PM sent

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Thank you Heywood Jablowme!

My tip for Daygame would be make sure that your appearance is really up too scratch. I've met a few dudes over the last few years who are either in or going into their thirties who have just come out of long term relationships and even marriages. The thing that I've noticed usually is that they have no sense of style and they seem too treat themselves like shit.

Just make sure you see this a real fresh start. That means chucking everything out that has anything to do with your last relationship. Get some new clothes and make sure your haircut and everything else is groomed properly. Make sure you try too calibrate in all of your approaches and don't go freaking girls out by coming off all needy. Your ex is behind you now, most younger girls are not going to give a fuck how you feel about it either.

If you've been working for the last 10 years or so then there's a good chance you're pretty stable and "have your shit together". Hopefully you don't have kids. Girls love guys who are mature and centered, so make sure that you play this card as much as possible. Most of all, no sob stories, what's gone has gone, just start taking the necessary action that you need for yourself to take your life in the direction that you want too from now, in twelve months time you will be looking back and laughing.

Don't diss the clubs either.

Thanks for the advise I'm definitely over my past relationship, i'm actually glad it's over.

As far as my style, i use and prefer a classic/gentleman type of thing, though i guess i should add some more color since most of my clothes are dark.

I am usually calm and thoughtful in my way, so i guess i could call this maturity . I do however have strong anxiety about talking to younger women for some reason. Guess it's lack of practice. Therefore, i decided to do the newbie challenge tomorrow or this weekend and also take to heart the advise i received in PM

I'm not dissing clubs i just really don't like most of them so i don't feel good in them. Maybe if i'll find people that really like clubs i might go with them.

Quit with the smileys Nancy. lol.

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They call me the cat whisperer, cause I know exactly what the pussy needs.

haha i realized i used to many when i hit submit. Good practice for my newbie mission of smiling and saying "hi" though.

It's probably because they're so fucking hot

But yeah, good stuff.

Just go for it and get the ball rollin' man.