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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 2:46 pm 
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Long story short. She won't text me back.

(im 22) met HB8 (19) at a party. Cute face, tattoos, bad ass attitude. Social strong. She actually started hitting me up. So I let her do the talking, acted as if I was interested but not too interested, talked to other girls at the party, came back to her. Had really good flow. After a while she gave me the doggy dinner look and i kiss closed. I was in.

It got late we tried to find a bed to "sleep" in, ;) but ended up on a coach. So, i dind't f close but i got her number. Teksted her 2 days later and we decided to meet up.

Came 2 her house (she lives only with her mom) We talked allot, she really opened up about herself. (I didn't) She told me that she could see that I was a player but she made it cleare that she didn't do one night stands and that she was a gf girl. I was like chill I'm only here to get 2 know you better ;)

It got late she told me some dark fuckn things about herself. (Shit test?) Almost got cold feet but Kept hanging in there, started joking sexually, touching more. I felt that she wasn't that in to it but i kept at it and so we started kissing, touching and shit. I tried to take of her pants but she wouldn't let me. I got as far as taking of the bra, but after a while she got serious and said "I don't want to throw away sex" etc. so we watched a movie and went to sleep.

We decided 2 meet again, but in 17 fckn days cuz she was off 2 Thailand. (But it was ok cuz I got some girls in my town ;) )

Ok so yes, we texted allot! The next 17 days (even though I met other girls) Maybe I became a little AFC or needy with her but she's smart yo! Whenever I waited a long time to reply she send cute "ur so slow at answering cry face*" like messages etc. Every day back an forth. She played the girlfriend card. Sendt wake up messages, good night kiss* and cute "what r u doing" "just wanted to say hi" text from time to time.
You know, ofc I thought she was fckn into me.

When we met, took her to my place. I live with 4 others.. :/ went into my room we kissed goofed and had a greate "bonding" time so on but she wouldn't let me F close. Fuck sake..!! So I went cold, and made a plan. took her to a house party in the evening.

Here is where it all went to shit.

At the party she sat down and talked whit this dude for like 30 min. I actually didn't care but whenever I got to her she would like talk 2 me for 5 min and then almost not let me kiss her. So I got drunk, and started hooking whit other girls. Bet she saw it. But she didn't get mad. Yes maybe a little, but that was cuz she said I should be with her more she didn't know anyone but me there. I'm like wtf is she talking about. What happened 2 the strong social girl 3 weeks back. So I got soft and started saying lots of nice things. we kissed, but after a while she was mad for no reason again. I was so confused. In the end we got home and she started to tease me suddenly? "I know you want me" shit and so on. then she finally let me f close. Best sex in ages (2 bad I was drunk)

The next day I wanted her 2 stay 1 more day. Not a smart choice. The whole next day she layed in the bed and said she had jetlag. And whenever I tried 2 kiss her or comfort her she got more and more irritated. So I descided 2 give her some space. It didn't work and it started to get late. I am a party guy so I said, "do you want to sleep it off
I can come back tonight and we can cuddle" she was like " yeah ok, do what you want to do" at that point I had lost my game. Didn't know what to do so I stayed for a while. She got more and more irritated. I got more and more confused. So said I'm gonna se some old friends. And I left and came back in the night. She was half asleep when I came back and don't want to cuddle.

Next day, she was cold as ice. kissed her on the neck but she repelled most of my touches. Then she started talking serious about her values and shit, that she didn't understand why people got drunk so much and so on. She didn't refer to me or use my name thought.

I asked if she was hungry, we decided to go and eat. That got her mood up. But nothing was open, so back to irritated by every little thing I say mood. Followed her 2 the station, we actually kissed on mouth and she went home. Didn't text before the next day. I sent her some fun things we had laughed of before, she started replying short. Less, and less. Sendt her fun pictures on snap she didn't reply. Today is easter. I sent a good morning snap "happy Easter! Kiss face*" she hasn't replied.

What should I do? I can't lose her.

I have thought about just freezing her off a couple of days. Se if she texts me and then don't answer for a while. And then answer short and cold back.

Or act like as if nothing happened. Give her some time and suddenly call and Ask if she wants to hang?

But then. What do I say? Thanks for reading.


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 3:10 pm 
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What should I do? I can't lose her.
Well you can't win her, if you can't afford to lose her.
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then she finally let me f close.
Buyers remorse. If she wants to contact you, she will.

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I have thought about just freezing her off a couple of days. Se if she texts me
That's all you can do.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 4:49 pm 
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But how should I act if she replys me, or texts me something?


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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 5:00 pm 
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Edit."You must be like my GED, I know I could do better but I'm to lazy to try!"

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 5:33 pm 
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Well you can't win her, if you can't afford to lose her.
OP, quit being afraid to lose her. She is only acting the way she's acting is because you're allowing it. If you're at the point of asking "what should I do?" after she's been acting negatively towards you, you're showing fear of being yourself.

What I am seeing here, going by the limited information, is that this a girl that WANTS you to be boyfriend material but her instincts are telling her that you really aren't from how you're presenting yourself. So far you're a party guy that only wants sex. If that's you, own it. She'll either follow your lead in hopes that she'll be able to prove she's the one or she'll try to find someone that is more suited for her. In my experience, she'll most likely go with the first option until it comes true or until it becomes too exhausting for her.

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PostPosted: Mon Mar 21, 2016 6:42 pm 
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So, i just have 2 sit back and wait for her to come back or nah, and in the mean time i have to make myself dont give a fuck and just do what i do. Thats hard man. Since you know, I think that i may want her as an exclusive. But Thanks anyway, big help! I really didn't think someone would reply me this fast. :D Thanks brothers!
Btw, sorry my English suck haha.


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