| Hello PUAs. I'm Unikoss- my 'pick up name', which has its roots from my actual name.
I'm 22 years old and I am a Law student.
Like most of us, I was introduced to the world of seduction by Style's 'The Game'. What followed for me was an intense process of self-improvement or inner game enahncement.
My major issue was that, despite my popularity and intelligence, I had not had any interactions with girls until the age of 21. Girls- pretty ones- were interested in me, but I could not figure out the signs.
During my learning process, I learnt a lot about body language, psychology and NLP and now I can humbly say I am a fairly good conversationalist and can socialise well. I have also spent hours reading about seduction extensively. I guess many concepts are strongly anchored in my subconscious.
Conversation is definitely my strength and it is my key weapon of defence and attack. However, one problem with me is that I'm quite fat (125kg for 1.72m as a result of an unfortunate illness). I'm slowly slimming down to my ideal weight (I lost 10 kg already to reach 125kg). For long, a hurdle to my progress was my size.
I started picking up girls here in Mauritius, where I was born. My best night out so far ended in 3 kiss-closes. My approach anxiety is gradually fading and by confidence is increasing. This whole thing of seduction is my passion, and makes me excited.
The problem with the Mauritian culture is that girls are not used to being approached in clubs. PUA are regarded as creepy and needy. Whenever you do manage to get a girl's attention, it is generally tough to escalate. The majority of the girls here are of Indian origin, and some are still very conservative (I am also of Indian origin).
However, getting dates is fairly easy. It's another type of game for me. My experience is mainly at clubs though, where I primarily aim to make great conversations. Because I'm fat, I don't give a perfect first visual impression. So I try to win over people when I open my mouth.
Having said that, I was quite introvert a few years back, but working on my inner game and making efforts to socialise have made me more outgoing and fun. I now feel very at ease around people, love to meet new people and enjoy social events. I am becoming more and more fond of social dynamics.
I've decided not to let my size undermine my game. On the contrary, it forces me to develop a charming and charismatic personality.
Interestingly, my favourite PUA for the time being is Richard LaRuina. I find that we have many things in common with him.
For the record, I have never had a girlfriend, though I've seduced many girls without going further (not by choice). It just did not work. My challenge is therefore to continue picking up girls to become a master seducer (my ultimate goal) and to find myself a girlfirend to be able to learn how to please a woman 'long-term'.
By the way, Mauritius is a tiny island in the Indian Ocean and it's a very modern and peaceful country with plenty of single ladies. It'll be nice to here from you all. Those who are from countries which are only now evolving to adapt ghe Western culture of pick up and dating will definitely understand me.
Unikoss
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