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cadsum
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PostPosted: Sat Feb 06, 2016 2:31 pm 
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HI everyone, 24yo AFC from Kent, England. I'm a complete beginner, currently reading LaRuina's 'Natural'. Have pretty poor general social skills and anxiety, so I've been doing a fair amount of reading in these areas, but I really want to get out and actually make REAL approaches, etc.., in order to improve my mood and motivation. Not sure how exactly to start, as there's so much information on PU out there, and I'm afraid if I go out and try without sufficient background knowledge I'll get burnt and it'll make me feel worse and more demotiviated.
Any recomendations for starting out, and then a general path for me to aim towards?
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lonerx14
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PostPosted: Wed Feb 10, 2016 1:46 am 
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your on your way cadsum, first tip: ask for help for sticking points.

Ex. I've been going up to girls and look good and break the ice then I have the 20 min silence war.... until I get ambush by the friends or socially killed by random high schoolers.

Have goals for self improvement will make alot of the small details ex. fluffing, dhv, lmr, etc...

and have networking skills if you don't have alot of money lol
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Eddie Fews
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For a good reading spot on these forums you can start here: approaching-and-opening/topic190187.html

If you have any direct questions you can ask them as well.

As far as approaching.. Mentally you can talk yourself up day after day, month after month, and it'll get a bit easier but nothing significant enough to wait for. This is about having courage and letting go of cowardice. If a man is not going to let emotions interfere with him doing what he believes is best for him. The fear doesn't exist anywhere outside of your own mind. You have to just get out there and do it.

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“I will act now. I will act now. I will act now. Henceforth, I will repeat these words each hour, each day, everyday, until the words become as much a habit as my breathing, and the action which follows becomes as instinctive as the blinking of my eyelids. With these words I can condition my mind to perform every action necessary for my success. I will act now. I will repeat these words again and again and again. I will walk where failures fear to walk. I will work when failures seek rest. I will act now for now is all I have. Tomorrow is the day reserved for the labor of the lazy. I am not lazy. Tomorrow is the day when the failure will succeed. I am not a failure. I will act now. Success will not wait. If I delay, success will become wed to another and lost to me forever. This is the time. This is the place. I am the person.”


― Og Mandino

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Black Phantom
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PostPosted: Thu Feb 11, 2016 3:55 pm 
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The more you spend time reading and studying how to talk to women, you will literally have more and more
anxiety about talking with them.

A big recommendation I have for you is drop the books, the videos and resources, and tackle your first challenge.

Once you're done with that, move on to the next challenge etc.

Don't stack yourself up with information, it's a very typically beginners mistake that will demotivate you, and
you'll probably get to a point where you'll quit.

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