What's up guys,

I'm the nice guy who doesn't get the girl. You know what I mean? I just barely heard about "The Game," and I plan to pick it up tomorrow.

For New Years I made a few resolutions
1. Grow some damn balls
2. Dress nicer
3. Get the girl

I've only been able to follow through with the first two. Hopefully, this site/forum can help me seal the deal.

I already know that I'm not completely hopeless. lol. Just this past weekend, I was able to get two numbers. Its the calling them up, with an interesting conversation opener that really gets me.

Can I be helped?

taiwaneezy

I always call & never text!! You have to get the girl into a similar emotional state that she was in when she gave you the number. What is most important at this stage is to build comfort with the girl, but don't come across as a damn wuss now!!

I find you just chat in a laidback cool fashion talking as you would a mate for, a couple of minutes, then invite her to hang out with the cool and interesting date that you have arranged.

remember

1) it's no big deal you are like Fonzy
2) don't take it personally if she flakes - some girls just give there numbers so guys will chase, ego boost
3) it's the phone so your voice is all you have to sell your dynamic personality - so make sure you sound interesting

Tyler Durden wrote a great piece on a real ballsy telephone approach - which you will find motivating (it's at bristollair)

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yeah thats a great point moonlighter, however what would you fellas do if she didnt answer the 1st time you callled? leave a voicemail? or call back later on??

I withold my number when calling this adds mystery and you can also play around with her saying her name and seeing if she can guess who it is - this shit shows a strong and playful FRAME, careful though you could come across creepy.

As a rule I would almost never leave a voicemail, they always sound bumbling and impersonal.

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