Stopped dating after a pregnancy. She and i have no relationship what so ever and i want to meet someone new. I don't recall what i was doing that was working with women and need to be retrained. I'm not having any luck and i think i've learned several reasons.

I went from a 175 pound kick boxer to a 240 pound power lifter all fat and what not. My energy levels were clearly different. One is high energy the other low energy. One is lean and ripped the other is fat and slow. One has a lot of eye contact, the other zero. One has a lot more confidence in its body language and image. While i can go back to kick boxing so my mind, posture, behavior aggressiveness and body change i'm not ready to do that. Unsure how to proceed.

I know the feeling
Sometimes when we let our selves go we lose our confidence, I think when you hit the gym again & shead those pounds you'll be condfident again.


But remember it's all mentally