Welcome! What brings you here? I'll try to guess
1. One girl in particular (either a crush, or an ex)
2. You notice other guys (who aren't any better than you at all) getting more girls, and it pisses you off, so you want in
3. You want a girlfriend, not any girl in particular, but you want to find one?
I've never done this before, but the reason that I'm trying to guess is because I'm 99% sure it'll at least be close to one of those... and I want to list the pros and cons of each one, to let you know what you're getting yourself into
Pros of number 1: You have ambition and passion, you're motivated.
Cons of number 1: You'll struggle to see that she isn't "different to all the others! You'd have to meet her to understand, seriously... we're so good together. If only she could see it!" < none of this is true, been there, as have most other guys here lol.
Pros of number 2: You actually realise that these guys aren't any better than you. Again, you've got the ambition etc.
Cons of number 2: Although it's good to realise that they're not better than you... you shouldn't be comparing yourself to other people in the first place - compare yourself to how you used to be, not how they are.
Pros of number 3: Your balls work. Now it's just a case of becoming the best possible version of yourself and finding a girl that meets your high (they are high, right? They'd better be high!) standards.
Cons of number 3: You're probably quite negative. Most people in this mindset are all "I'll never get a girlfriend!" and their standards drop so fucking low, it's insane.
Although I'm kind of joking around on this comment, it is all valid.
Unless you just wanna bang plenty of bitches. That's also a possibility. There are no pros and cons to that - you're just human.
CHAT