Just wanted to introduce myself and find out a little bit of info...

I'm from the States. PA to be exact...Wife left 3 yrs ago. Long boring story..lol.

So I have been working on my confidence, and have built myself up to a point where i'm not afraid to approach a girl, but still a bit hesitant. in my head i know the worst that could happen is i get blown off and my thought is, "oh well, she isnt the only game in town". I use to be really shy. I have come along way in 3 yrs but not where i want to be. I can approach a girl and open her, but I feel that after that I get to drawn out with trying to interpret what she is saying. This is where I need work for now. My flow isn't smooth. i pause to much trying to figure out what i'm going to say next, then I question what i said. which pulls me away from the initial purpose of approaching....

Ive heard and read about routines, but are you using these over and over? I dont want to sound monotonous on my approach....Where should I begin, and how can I maintain a flow?

Welcome, thanks for sparing us the bloody details....

Let me summarize. You did everything for her, til she started fucking someone else.
So the #1 reason you are here is a serious case of dry dick?

You will hear people bitch and moan about using routines on this forum, but the cold truth is the reason men come here is because they have never had, or have lost their natural flow. Right?

The #1 question when it comes to meeting and talking to women is... "What Do I Say?” Doesn't matter if it’s a random girl across the room that you have never spoken a word too in your life, or if it’s that special girl from HR that you've been dreaming about for the past week, month or maybe even year! The quick fix is what we call "routines". Simply put, they are interesting subjects and stories to talk about that make you feel confident, charming, funny and social. Essentially, they are training wheels to help you past the mental block of what to say right now! So a couple of hours later your dick is in her!

Eventually you want to develop your own routines that fit your personality and lifestyle; however viewforum.php?f=55 these are a good start to learn what works. You may be amazed with the reactions girls will have with these routines alone, and you will learn how powerful this stuff really is when you try it out!

Find some that feel comfortable. Rehearse them until they feel natural coming out of your mouth. The key to using a canned routine is adaptation! Both personally and to the situation.

The reason phone solicitors use a certain script, is because it's been proven to work.

Hope this helps you out Bro. The road to the pussy is much shorter than you think.

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Thanks man.... very helpful