hi guys I'm new to this I broke up with my girlfriend about 2 1/2 weeks ago because she doesn't love me any more and we're too different etc etc.

I am finding it hard to get over her as we still have to live together until the end of the month due to our tenancy.

But I am acting like it doesn't bother me that we broke up when I have to be around her.
I'm not trying to get her back or trying to make her want to try again, I'm not acting angry or petty towards her.

Just so I am absolutely clear this is not about trying to get her back this is about me seeing the opportunity to become a better man, not for her but for me. I have started weight training every day, running almost every day and doing martial arts twice a week, I am quite unfit as I work at a desk all day but I have lost 2" off my waist in about 5 weeks taking me down to 34" waist now, with the goal of losing another 2" by the end of the month which will take me down to 32" which is what I was when we started dating in the first place with the ultimate goal of getting a six pack by my birthday at the end of November.

If I had the chance to get back together with her I would turn her down, I learnt the hard way never to give a woman a second chance, as they'll just break your heart again. I want to do something with my life and I don't need to be carrying any dead weight.

I guess I am here to learn to be the best me I can be and take control of my life and relationships and would really appreciate any help.

Thanks guys