Hello everyone.I'm new here and need some advice.I need to boost up my confidence. I'm not a shy guy.If my friend introduce me to her friend I can talk with her easily but using openers to meet with the woman who I've never met before is really new to me.I'm trying to learn new openers but I only used one of them so far.I need starter tips.

Hey bro,

Welcome to the community.

Tips based on what you wrote...

1) You think you need confidence. You really need competence. Confidence will come through competence. And confidence without competence is blind arrogance. Competence is your skill set. You build your skill set by gaming consistently in a pragmatic manner.

2) Most guys aren't shy, but you're feeling anxiety when you see a new girl. All good. We've all been there. You'll learn to tolerate the anxiety and push through it. Realize your anxiety is irrational. Nothing physically damaging will come from approaching that girl. Only your ego may be hurt. Once you accept you are just learning and drop ego, you'll become good fast.

3) The best openers are compliments and observations. If you're really nervous with girls and want a quick spike in adrenaline, go direct. I find the longterm game is better when going indirect; you'll get a larger selection of women and higher quality. A compliment that will always work is...

"I love your hair."

Every girl loves a compliment to her hair.

4) The more specific your question, the better help you will receive. Asking for starter tips is so so so vague and broad that most guys will skim past your post.

5) Action beats knowledge. When given the option between reading another book about game/watching another YouTube video or going out, go out! You'll learn a whole lot more (even if it doesn't feel like it at first) and can post on the forum if you have any questions.

6) Take note of who is giving you advice. There's plenty of keyboard jockeys and guys giving out advice who haven't gone through the motions. It's tough at first to sift through who is good and who is bad, but take a look at how other forums members are responding to that guys advice and make an educated decision of whether or not that guy's advice is good.

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Chris
Dating Strategist
https://structureofdating.com/

Thanks for your respond and for your help.
I'll follow your recommendations.This weekend I'll go out and after that I'll share my experimantations.