| Hey guys.
I a 20 year-old college student in NYC. I've been "in the game" for a few months, so I'm still at the beginner level.
I am really passionate about improving the transportation in my city, and I want to be a transportation engineer. Ever since I was like 13-14 years old, I would always be going to meetings to voice my opinion on how to improve the transportation, and I even started a petition and went around collecting signatures and everything.
Long story short, I'm not a "shy" guy. I'm going to say that there were "other factors" holding me back, where I was afraid to bring a girl into my situation, but I've moved past that.
So in any case, I exclusively do daygame. I approach girls on the bus/subway on my way to/from work or school. My personal beliefs (at least, as of now), are that sex should mean something, so I'm not looking to bang random girls, but at the same time, I highly doubt I'll be waiting for marriage.
I used to use a pickup line where I would mention that I'm good with directions, and a couple of minutes before we would have to leave (again, remember that I usually approach girls on the bus/subway, although a few times, I've done approaches on campus and things like that), I would say "If you ever need directions, give me a call", and then we exchange numbers.
Right now, I need to work on incorporating more physical touch into my interactions. (I've never even kissed a girl. There's a few where I'm realizing that I missed the "tells" that she wanted to be kissed, and I'm kicking myself for that, but whatever, I'll keep moving forward). I've done it a couple of times where I would kiss a girl on the cheek, but she would pull away, so I know she didn't want an actual kiss. (Unfortunately, it was sort of random where I would do it. The girls who were interested, I didn't even go for a cheek kiss). I think I'll set a rule where, as long as the interaction went somewhat well, I'll always go for a cheek kiss.
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