Hi,

I turn 20 next week and I've never had a girlfriend.. the closest I've got a real relationship was recently and I fucked things up which just depressed me to another level.. I don't wanna be like this anymore but I'm not sure where to start.. any help would go a long way

Welcome bro

Step 1 would be to study some theories. I recommend to start off with:

Models - Mark Manson
http://amzn.to/1xmTwPo

It is kind of anti pick up, but is shaves off all the bull shit that all the other shitty companies focus on.

After this, you will want to keep reading more and more theories but the reality is that you will be just avoiding action. You need to take action

Step 2 would be to find some wings, find your local lair or use this forum to find some. Then go out as much as you can, make sure you do not spectate. Get stuck in!

If you still can't do this, then I would suggest to lay down some money on the line and book a weekend bootcamp (most major cities will have one) so that this forces you to take action otherwise it will be a waste of money. This is what I did and it was the crucial push that I needed to keep taking consistent action and I now I am very happy with my love life. I do not give the bootcamp credit but I give myself credit for pushing myself. Don't expect the bootcamp to turn you into Casanova in one weekend. There is still a lot of work to be done.

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