Hi!

I've been friend with this girl for the past three years, we haven't spoken much the last year and I know what I did wrong from the start, I was a fucking wimp, I didn't do kino at all and I did everything for her, cancelled hangouts with my friend just to be with her like a fucking looser, I was pretty much beta male.

But I have changed, and when I found out PUA my body language have changed and I'm not afraid of touching girls like a was before. To the question now.

We were out partying and she wanted too meet, so we met and she saw that I'v changed. I could tell that she was a little interested because I'm more of a man now.

Anyhow, her friends were leaving for the night but she wanted to stay with me so she did, when the bar closed I could tell that she wanted to join me home, and she followed.

When we go to my apartment there was a little chemistry between us, we play fought in my bedroom, i teased her and she hit me on my shoulder a couple of times. She then jumped on me and put her booty against my nuts (with the clothes on) we cuddled for a bit, she let me touch her boobies, ass, pussy, (still with the clothes on).

There was a time when we had strong eye contact where I swear I could'v kissed her but i didn't coz her bf was in the back of my mind all the time (don't even know this dude).

I have now decided that the next time the opportunity presents itself i will take it and I will sleep with her (even if she has a bf, i'v had a crush on her for a year)

How do I play it from here? I know I have to create some sort of sexual tension between us but don't really know how, i know kino but not the verbal part. How is my text game gonna be? am I supposed not to write to her or am I gonna send some attraction texts. I think she's DTF but I think it's only gonna happen on the weekends. Should I do hardcore kino when I meet her next time out clubbin? What is the best strategy in my case?

Welcome to the forum! To answer your question, it seems like you have enough attraction, you just need to escalate more to a full close. Make sure you kiss her the next time you see her. Keep things light and playful over text. You could easily kiss her once you start dancing with her. Once you start grinding, start bringing your foreheads closer to each other and gauge if she stays or gets closer so you know you have a good chance of kissing her. Pre-seed the pull by talking about something interesting in your place or hers. Then casually bring it up towards the end when you want to see that "cool" thing at her place or show her that thing at your place and close her once you're in the sex location.

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Thanks man! I will go check out your website.

I dont think there will be any dancing, so I have to make the kiss happen in another way. I think i can pull her home again if we meet, but we will end up in the cough (no tv in bedroom), is there a smart way to get her pants of? feels kinda awkward asking her or struggle to unbutton her tight jeans, if I take it to the bed I could just say that she is not getting in to my bed with her dirty jeans or say that it's more comfy without the pants but my bedroom is fucking boring no tv so I have no excuse to get to the bed other than suggesting we should try to get some sleep.

You can also go for the kiss when she's invested enough into you. So if you qualify her on deep personal stuff and she starts gushing out on her daddy issues, abusive ex, dead cat, etc. you can reward her investment through escalation. The deeper her investment, the more you can escalate. Make sure you've already developed comfortable touching in the beginning and build it up. Also make sure you kiss her before you pull so you've set a precedent and she doesn't freak out once you start escalating at the sex location.

You're right about not asking her to take off her clothes, unless you guys are heavily making out and she starts ripping off your clothes. I usually like to keep a laptop in my bedroom and tell her I need to show her some cool videos on YouTube (I have a playlist that sets the mood right), or you can just use any excuse. You can actually just start escalating once you are in the bedroom and see how reacts and might close right away. If she backs off for a bit, just continue gaming and build more comfort and try again later.

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