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Hello! I have always been a reader of this PUA community taking tips and applying them(trying) here and there. An I have had some success and some failures. After reading some articles on here I have come to the conclusion that I want to go all in. Physically, emotionally, and mentally; I want to be able to hone the skills here so I may finally have a more consistent idea what everyone is talking about.
If anyone has any ideas to where I should start please give me some recommendations
Hello.
Before you can make others happy you need to work on you and make yourself happy. You need to have a very firm grasp of who you are, your core values, your beliefs, your insecurities, your desires, what you like in a woman, what you dislike, etc. Go out have fun being you, do things you like to do that never had the chance to, travel, and build confidence in yourself. Then when you truly know who you are then you can apply what PUA items apply to your personality.
BE CAREFUL not to immerse yourself into various methods. You will change who you are and how you like to do things because it doesn't bring results. If I use Mystery's Method then I have to think and act similar to him many times to get his results. It has to be congruent with who he is. Same with any other fill in the blank PUA's method or techniques. There are plenty of strategies out there for day, night, online, etc. The best thing to do is pick and choose those that you can see yourself saying to the point it sounds like your own words. Pick what you want like a buffet line and added to your plate rather than immersing yourself into any one style, make it an extension of who you are, do not let it define you.
CHAT