Hey everyone. I'm just trying to start getting into game, and I am looking for a little direction. 18 y/o AFC at Boston University, looking for bootcamps, anybody willing to help, or just about any advice you have got.

I am kind of scared about talking to girls in general, but mostly the approach is what gets me. I always think that she won't want to talk, and especially in sets, I feel as if I will get rejected right away, or worse, ignored. Anyone who can give me some direction on where to go from here would be extremely helpful. Thanks guys!

Hey new kid

I am also new around here (just joined) but actually a year into pickup.

The best direction I can give you is to approach 3 girls every day.

Or, if you are with friends you can play a little game:
10 minutes, 3 approaches. One of you has a stopper, the rest approach and for every approach you get a line on your arm (the stopper guy must have a pen).


That's it, very simple yet very hard. There is alot of advice out there, alot of courses, bootcamps, instructors. lectures, books, articles. I did them all. It's all good, but the best thing they do is push you towards something you couldn't do yourself before. And after it pushed you, you realize that you could do this yourself, all you had to do - is do.

If you just approach, and approach every day (even if it just 3), you will get the hang of it pretty fast. Remember that whatever you need to be attractive is already in you. Ingrained through millions of years of evolution (If you believe in evolution).

In parallel to approaching every day (try your very best to do this), I reccomend reading girlschase (dot) com

He is a blogger, but his bloggs are actually worth something (unlike many others).

Ofcourse if you decide it isn't enough, and you want to pay money for an intructor and such, go ahead.

Hope this helps.

Alon

Thanks so much. I tried this out yesterday as soon as I read it, and I am feeling more confident. The first set I opened was a two set with two girls who both had bfs, so I didn't approach until the obstacles were gone, and then I opened two one sets that turned into two sets as the real target came to see what was up with me talking to her friend. Overall, good night, and can't wait to keep getting more comfortable. Thanks for the advice!

Sounds like a good start

(Alot of people have approach anxiety at first, but you have overcome that first try.) Keep it up