I'm a college freshman in the Midwest. Computer science major, 3d Animator, robotics mentor, and casual gamer. Also enjoy creative writing, particularly fan-fiction. Strong Christian, so I should note that my goal with pick-up is to get a girlfriend, not a sex partner. I go to college in my hometown and my parents are paying, so I live at home, with no salary. What money I do have to my name is somewhat monitored by my parents, so it's next to impossible to buy a typical pick-up program and study it.

One thing that's definitely worth noting about me is that I'm Aspergian. If you think you were clueless about girls once, think again. The biggest detail about Asperger's that's relevant to pick up, is that Aspergians lack even a natural ability to read body language. You might be able to tell the difference between their emotional states, happy and sad, nervous and embarrassed. I can't do even that easily.

Beyond that, Aspergians tend to focus on one detail at a time. We often have specialized areas of intellectual interest, and a strong memory for facts, something that I hope will make learning things with pickup easier.

We tend to develop routines and habits as a stress management system. (Really, the Aspergian brain does a lot of what it does because the brain is basically way to overstimulated.)

I'm basically here looking for some help. I've never had a girlfriend. As far as I can tell, I've almost never had even one crush returned. When I start to like a girl, I typically wind up chasing her off so far that she won't even talk to me. One, who was rather patient with me, I chased for three years. She finally blocked me on Facebook and met a guy who's serious enough about that they might get married. As I tried to move on to another girl, the same thing just happened again. (She's not likely to be married anytime soon, but definitively has some other guys hanging around her.) One of my particular goals is to be able to reverse situations like that, to the point that she's begging to be my girl.

I know next to nothing about pick-up, and what little I do is from wanting various ones you can find on the web. Really, anything covert conversational/psychological technique that could get a girl to find me an irresistible date, (and hot sex she's willing to wait for) will meet my needs. However, I do have some potential interest in erotic and conversational hypnosis, and anything by David Shade, especially Cure Nice Guy and Hot Phone (Physical technique is kind of irrelevant until I find a girl I want to marry.) Also stumbled across a video promoting the Freind Bomb, curious about the techniques in that one two.

So what I'm really looking for here is some mentoring on pick-up, especially in some of the areas I mentioned.

Hey

Welcome here. At first I would like to wish you good luck learning game. But before u start to learn different techniques and lines I would recommend you to start working on yourself. Firstly work out on your self confidence, analyse things that are currently limiting your communication with girls and destroying your game, and then simply minimize those things. U should also work on your looks to look as good as possible, because looks are first thing that people 'see' about us.
About aspergers, some of really good PUAs have aspergers but they used it in their advance, so dont worry about it.

Good luck getting girlfriend:)

Just remember that having Aspergers doesn't mean you cant learn game... i actually had the privilege to talk to one of Mystery's ex girlfriend and she told me that Mystery has Aspergers no doubt. so if he can do it, you can do it.

you got this! i have faith in you.

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Who's Mystery? Obviously I'm new here.

You guys shouldn't worry too much about the confidence stuff-as long as I am focused on Christ, that's not the issue. (In fact, when I take the focus OFF Christ and put it on the girl is when it becomes an issue.)

Figuring out where my communications break up with girls would be helpful, though. Could use some help figuring that one out.

While I do some basic hygine, (i.e. brushing teeth, showers), I'm curious about how one defines physically attractive for men. I'm guessing scruffy beard is not the best look and that I should shave more often, and that chapped lips are not the best either and should be avoided.

I'm also curious about some of these Aspergian PUAs, and what they have to say as general advice to a beginner who shares their situation. Love to talk with one of them.

Like "the" PUA. He's shit though lol, out-dated; he walks around in nail varnish to get noticed by women, and silly hats. He's a weird guy. You sound overly religious. I usually find religious people really boring, not sure how women feel, and not expecting you to change that... I just hope you don't open with religious stuff.

Look up Adam Lyons. You don't exactly sound like the type to go watch RSDJulien or Jason Capital. Adam Lyons is great, and underrated. YouTube him.

Oh, and look up Corey Wayne. Definitely look him up. Infact, type Scribd Corey Wayne into Google; it should take you to Scribd, where you can get a free copy of his book. If not, sign up to his website, it's free to read in the members area. It's basically the essential in understanding women, in my opinion - it'll teach you a lot more than bullshit like "the 5 lies game" and other jokes. It'll actually teach you how to keep a woman, rather than fuck her and be left twiddling your painted thumbs and wondering why the silly hat wasn't enough to keep her around

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Yeah Adam Lyons would be good to check, I would also recommend James Marshall.. But i belive that before u start to study you analyze your current limits with females..

Develop a natural framework then fill it in with stuff you find on here. There are many posts on natural game in the Natural game section.

Here is a basic one:

Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

Then go on here and look over advice on texting and pick what you find the most fun to test out. Employ your texting game (or phone conversation game if you want to do that) and set up the date ASAP

Look for advice on dates (pick the thing you like best)

Look for advice on how to get a kiss

Look for advice on how to get a woman isolated in a place you can have sex.

Look for advice on how to prevent and overcome LMR

Look for advice on how to manage having an abundance of women in your life/managing a one woman relationship.

Answers to each piece of that puzzle can be found here for free.

A more advanced but still basic framework

pre approach - Approach/open(light kino optional) - have her invest/qualify herself to you (light kino) - build comfort/rapport (mid kino) - Close (number, instant date)

I suggest after you develop your own personal system (which can include nlp/hypnosis if you want) that you practice practice practice, then look for better skills to fill each section.

If you choose to do this can you do me a favor? I want to see what you create. PM me your completed framework (i don't care how long the PM is tell the whole story). I'll look over it and clean it up and streamline it for you.

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