Hey everyone,

I am 19, and need some help when it comes to ladies....

I think I am good at starting up a conversation but what ends up happening is when I start a convo... I mess up right on my openers... which ends up dropping me straight into "lets be friends" zone... haha


I honestly had no idea and never even thought in my rarest dream that there would be a community in existence like this....

The first time I came to know about this art was when I watched The Pickup Artist Show on VH1... That gave me a lot of encouragement thinking if those eight guys who had no game can kick some a** then I can too... Thats when I started doing some research and ended up finding out on couple good books/articles that I am reading right now... not done yet cuz just got started on them...

:Here are the ones that I have right now:
Neil Strauss - The Game
Then Venusian Arts Handbook that I actually found on here couple minutes ago as I am typing this...

If you guys know of something that I can read and help me understand and learn more... please route it my way...

And I plan on learning more now... with the help of all you guys up here... Thank you...

Hi pal...

The book by Strauss was great... read it too... You know... I'm no fight for the top PUA's but I think I want to share with you a few pointers...

Firstly, let me introduce myself. I'm from Singapore and I am 26 years old. I started playing the game since I was 16 and so far, I've had a 'collection' of about 160 to 170+ added to my little black book.

Opening lines are crucial, but never use a pick-up line... If there is one... The target would smell it!

Instead go for the direct-misdirect style which I use even to this day... Approach with fixed eye contact and observe her facial features... Never let eye contact slip, while approaching, always have a slight smile... NEVER a big one... its weird when a stranger comes at you with a huge smile... lol..
I don't call it a pick up line... but it seems to always work... I always say something like.. "You know, if I walked away and not pushed myself to say hi to you, I would have kicked myself the whole day" Then tell her straight (still with eye contact)...Yeah I know... Its a bad pick-up line right... Women have to be reminded that guys who approach them wants to pick them up... They love the sound of the phrase Pick-Up-Line... They think its amusing and EVERY woman loves a little snigger... Then just keep firing questions... Such as... What are you doing in a boring place like this? (Don't wait for answers)... Next question... Ask something which would stun her and make her think.... Something like... "Hey!" You have a great set of teeth... You should lend it to me when your boyfriend finds out I'm trying to steal you away from him and knock my set out...

Just be creative buddy... Don't use the exact style in which I use... use your imagination...I know mobile phones are the in thing now to key in phone numbers, but what I do is always carry a pen... And I would pretend to search for my phone and say something like.."I would really love to get your number but I can't find my phone"... I Should get a bigger phone... Then whip out your pen and say nevermind... I'll just write it down on my arm... Roll up a sleeve and BINGO!!! You have a previous note written on your forarm which reads "Buy Dog food"... (Of course that note written before you left the house)... That ALWAYS makes the girl crack up... Ask her to write below the dog food note because the dog food is priority... Fido or pumpkins would starve...

There you go buddy... these are stuff which I came up with. I hope it helps..
Keep in touch

G

really appreciate the help...

Sure will keep in touch...later bro...

peace...